People say nasty things when they break up

I think it's mostly b/c of the hurt and pain caused by the breakup. Sometimes when your hurting you just want to lash out. [b]~~AT PEACE WITHIN~~ **STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS**[/b]

I think that is a natural reaction . it is the people’s defense just to fight for themselves. You want your listener to know that you are not the bad person , which we usually think. You want your listener that is not your fault but him or her. We blame other person about our shortcomings, because it is not true that in a problem it is only one persons fault. Some problems are caused by misunderstanding. We are blind to see our mistake, we can escape the pain when we blame and say nasty things to our ex-partner. It is just based on my observation , when I am seeing my friends having the same problem.

We got angry sometimes when you are hurt or upset. All you can do is burst out all your feelings and hatred with the person that once you value so much. You really can't help it. Have you heard that the one who's closest to you can also be your worst enemy? Well, that's it. Because you shared your life together, had good times together, laugh and cried together. They are the one who knows what you really are. But of course, you can settle it when you apologize and have a simple conversation.

There is almost always alot of emotion involved ina break up. People don't like their world;s changing especially if you are the scorned party you dont want to have to give up the security and safety of having the other person around. I can see why it happens. One person gets insulted and feels the need to respond.

Probably due to the fact, that "emotions" are one of the hardest things to control. cdrxo

humans are verbal and when angry or frustrated reply in a vocal way. If one can overlook what is said and just remember the circumstances many times understanding will come and forgiveness will follow.

Fear, depression and rejection bring out the worst in people.