Is a friend real if she doesn't include you to her wedding entourage??
@d_red_madelaine (528)
Philippines
September 13, 2009 10:10am CST
We are three in our group and we call ourselves power puff girls LOL. We always hang-out together, going to malls, playing games in the internet, eating in Mcdonalds 'til morning etc. Anyway, one of my friends will get married and I'm so happy and excited for her. I expected to be one of her bridesmaids. But sad to say after seeing her wedding website, I felt so dissappointed, sad, confuse. What happened to the bonding times, the fun times... I don't know if I did something wrong to her. As far as I know I'm a good friend to them. Why my other friend is included and I'm not? It's so unfair.
Actually I do not care anymore, I just stop hanging out with them, not really stop but lessen my time with them. It's her wedding not mine, she got to choose who she wants in her entourage. But, now I wonder are she/they my real friends? What do you think?
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@lilaclady (28206)
• Australia
14 Sep 09
Maybe there was only room for one friend, I guess it would hurt but I think you should just look at friends as people in your life you care about but not to expect too much because you will always get hurt...I have been hurt so much by best friends in the past I just don't have best friends any more, I just have them all on even keel....
@d_red_madelaine (528)
• Philippines
14 Sep 09
Thank you for sharing your experience... I really appreciate it just need to unload what I can't to friends...
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
14 Sep 09
I can't blame you for feeling that way but perhaps there are relatives priorotized to be included in her entourage. As friend you have to understand and give her a chance to explain her side. Though she really had to explained to you earlier, but give her the benefits of the doubt, being an excited bride.
