have you tried wearing two-piece swim wear in front of so many beach goer?

lol i have that upper arm tan thing. It's pretty much permanent now. I'm always suprised at how light my skin naturally is. I think it's cool that you feel this way. I feel most people are way too "out in the open" these days. I've seen people riding bikes completely naked at the beach near my school. and don't get me started about the naked elderly people at my local swimming pool. And don't worry i'm sure you look really hot in a swim suit. You have a pretty face anyways :)

I don't think you should worry about what you look like when you wear a bikini. It is your choice! Who cares what anybody else thinks. There is no reason to feel self conscious about looks. I think that the majority of people you will be with are probably self conscious also about how they look, so don't worry!

If it's something like bikini, then be sure I am too shy to wear it. I don't have such kind of confidence to wear bikini in public:) I love China

two piece dress??? i think this discussion is for girls alone...sorry to interrupt..anyway, i go to swimming by wearing only a trunks or swim shorts....along with my goggles and head cap...its all because i am a boy and i am 19... people in swimming pool wait for my arrival...they adore my physical structure.. happy to respond.. happy mylotting.. sorry for interrupting..please don't give negative response

I used to wear a two-piece bathing suit a long time ago when I was a teenager. I don't have the figure for one any more and I feel like the one-piece bathing suits make you look slimmer. I never did wear a bikini at least. There was a time when I wanted one but my mother wouldn't let me wear anything like that. I'm thankful now that she didn't. Kathy.

hi there, dont care to others. live with your choice but............ but you have some social status and responsibilities. dont forhet it. thanks

I think there is nothing wrong in wearing the item. If you want to use then wear it, you need not to think what others think.

I don't wear a bikini; I'm extremely self-conscious about my body during these times. I recently gained 20 pounds..So I definitely don't like to wear bikinis. It's unfortunate, though, because so many girls (at least in my culture) wear bikinis to the beach..I get jealous! Wearing a two-piece bikini is deifnitely socially acceptable where I am, and so sometimes it's hard to go against the grain as much as I do. I usually just wear my jeans and a tee or shorts/tank top to the beach, and I usually don't swim. It's unfortunate that we don't feel comfortable wearing bikinis.

hi xannebull! I am very chubby but i dont know where and how i got the guts to wear a tu-tu. I started wearing tu-tus this year and i dont care what the other beach babes think. I guess i must have matured. It is not what you wear... Its the attitude!

Hi xanne! I do wear a two-piece swim wear in the beach but I had to make it sure first that I'd look good on it. I don't mind looking at other people on their bikinis though. But for my case I'd really wanna make it sure first that I don't look too skinny or too fat or too skanky (especially too skanky) in it before wearing it in front of other eyes. :)

never have tried doing that. i am also the conservative type. in my younger years and when i was still single, i used to wear a one-piece swimsuit when we went swimming in the beach. that was the "farthest" that i went and never tried wearing two-piece swimsuit. i lose that chance of trying to wear a two-piece swimsuit now.... now with age and having borne 3 children.