Falling for a friend...

Philippines
September 14, 2009 3:33am CST
I don't like the idea of falling for a friend. He's my friend. I don't want to end up our friendship, but there's a part of me that telling me that I have to tell him what I feel. I'm afraid of losing a friend if I confess but I know I would regret it for a lifetime without letting him know.
2 responses
@Capsicum (1444)
• United States
14 Sep 09
If this person is a true friend ,I see no problem in being honest.Sometimes it makes the relationship stronger.If you cannot talk to your friend about this you may want to consider what this relationship means to you.Friends should be able to take ,the consequences of their statements .Its your duty as a friend to speak to this person on this subject.If they are really a friend I see no problems ,unless of course you have led them on to believe otherwise.Then its a situation you have created but now cannot handle. Gentle words smooth any rough patch,just choose them wisely.
• Philippines
18 Sep 09
tnx for that, i might tell him one these days...if he doesn't has the same feelings then i may be just a good friend for him..^_^
@Capsicum (1444)
• United States
20 Sep 09
Thanks for best response,I do hope it all works out for you as friends are far and few between.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
14 Sep 09
You have to make wise decision. It's all or nothing at all. You have to think of it a thousand times. It matters a lot if he's you best friend. If not then it's okay to go and tell him about how you feel. One thing you must remember, don't risk what you can't afford to lose. You might as well regret it for a life time. It's matter of choice, where your happiness lies. Hope you would make the right decision!
@Capsicum (1444)
• United States
17 Sep 09
This could be out of the question considering the question ask er, has not responded to any of their questions. So I don't see where wise fits into this persons equation .