Do your friends criticize you?

Philippines
September 14, 2009 4:50am CST
I just wanna make a survey who here has friends who criticize them wheteher if it is joke or not.Like they point out to you the flaws in your physical appearance, personality or actions where your left feeling hurt or offended... How do you react to it? Do you personally think it's a simple joke?
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@Leixa003 (867)
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
Yes they do and i do that to them too. I think that is what REAL friends are supposed to do. You or they should point out something if it needs your attention. Just take it on a positive way. It is better to let them tell you than other people you are not close with. By doing that (criticizing) you help or they help in building a better character or personality. I would not want a so called friend would just praise me just to please me and I do not think of it as a friend but as a person with ulterior motives.
@delkar (1712)
• Romania
14 Sep 09
my firiends don`t do that , but i`m doing that to them . I like to tell them the true in a joke . They don`t get mad on me , no matter what i`ll tell them . One of them , begun to do exactly what i`m doing with them , and i really don`t get mad , we even manage to make the other one to be ambitious and that will help us always . I like to criticize , but i love to be criticized too, becase what i`ll do , i wanna to be so good, so , i need a true opinion .
• India
14 Sep 09
Ya my friends some times criticize me for my nature, i take it in a very sporty way. As i know that what ever my friends think about me they think for the best. Even i some time criticize them as i want them to be perfect. We have an unique kind of relation we can name it as a brotherly hood relation. I really love my friends as they are always with me for what so ever the problem is. They never move back even if they got to get beatings for my sake and i experienced it when they saved from the outsiders.
@abanerji (1026)
• India
14 Sep 09
my friends at times do mock at me or even critise me. i don't take things lightly. i ponder over the issues and then try to bring a positive change if it can come. many a times their critisism is of no use so i also listen to it from one ear and let it go from the other.