Where you belong?

Basically we give to get love and to receive love.This is so in many cases.But there are many who care and give to the downtrodden and with ill health.There might not be sense of love but it might be to alleviate suffering.There may be philanthropic reasons behind giving material help.There might be those who seek publicity for the help they are providing.

yeah ,but there is another giving that is just giving,just want to do something for the others,for the person who needs help.just like the Red Cross Conference.there are lots of people waiting for help,so let's do it,and enjoy our daily life.

Yes the one reason that you are giving because you love the person but secondly is giving because you just want to give. When you give and feel just giving, it brings happiness in your heart that you cannot explain. What do I mean? Right now, I do not have siblings left and lost my mom as well. I am the youngest of 3, I never knew that I will lose them that early. When I lost my eldest brother sometime 1995, he was just turning 25 then. I realize that, why cannot we do things that will give someone a happy heart even you are not expecting anything in return. I mean, giving to someone even you do not love them at all? Because you will never know what will happen to you next the next time you won't give to someone even they are not in need of any material things. Just to give them time, to just listen to them is really will make them happy and will give a even much happier coz you made someone happy. Giving without expecting in return is the best, if that person will not appreciate it. Well, at least you made it coz you want to be happy inside and out! Smile!

love!! Is everyone happy together.

hi careguarden! when i love someone, i love unconditionally; i don't expect anything in return, not even love in return. it is not necessary that if i love someone they would love me back so i don't expect anything. so if i give i give because i love the person not for getting love in return.

yup