What happened when others asked for ur suggestion?Can u really change their mind

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My senior classmate wanna go to shanghai so as to find a new job though she already has a very good one in another town. I know lots of people wanna cross the fence so that they can enjoy the supposing greener grass on the other side. The truth is I doubt it is reallly greener...However, on the other hand, you can go with your heart to make any mistake too. Well, nobody knows what might end up! Just like a Chinese saying goes, complete sincerity can affect even mental and stone. Couldn't say you are making a wrong plan even though you are against the logical thinking... I just have no design on any big city...I don't know why so many people are so desperate to land on it ...I am sort of accustomed to seeing the big cities...besides the high buildings and large mansions, what else do you expect? Kinder people, or less pressure, or better chance, is visionary hope! When you move from a small town to a bigger town, you will find a change in form but not in content or essence!If you do wish to taste something new, go abroad then... Here is the thing! She asked my suggestion and she just didn't listen to me at all. This is the funny part! Well,when someone decides to do something, it seems that you can't persuade him or her no matter how gifted you are good at talking or what sense you make! Even if they asked your suggestion, what they would like to hear is that you couldn't agree with them more...Supposed you said something else, you tended to strat a debate competition, it's like you are on the negative side... You should let them go...Afterall, one's destination can only be achieved by oneself. If someone is so yeaning for something, just let them go for it! Maybe, the view in another world is spectacular! What do you think? ,... haha, last,by the way, now that there is merely slim chance that I surpass them in terms of wealth like Bill Gates' kids, I am determined to survive them, a more hopeful goal...huh? :D