my neighbour is too home town

Malaysia
September 16, 2009 9:18pm CST
My neighbor is soooo nosy that every thing that me and my family do they try to compare and do better. I bought a new low end car to replace my mid end car since I cant afford it any more. They bought a new car and keep their old car. I bought a motorbike so as to save money on fuel and toll. one week later he bought a new motorbike to use around the neighborhood. I decorated my living room with some cheap mirrors to make the room look bigger. they brought back a big mirror with colored motives and golden hig class frame. They say you have to be neighborly but this is too much. I am piss off already with these people. Have you been in the same situation as me.
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@veronizm (909)
• Philippines
17 Sep 09
Hi! Pls. pardon me if I had to laugh. Because I really find your neighbors funny:D I mean, for me, it's just so pathetic of them. Imagine, they had to buy what you buy but in a more expensive version? I could just imagine if you'd buy yourself the most expensive things like a private jet or something. How could they afford to beat that! lol! I haven't experienced that situation although when I was younger our two neighbors were the ones who would compare each other, because the other neighbor is jealous of the other. Like for instance, when one bought a living room set, the other also bought a more expensive and luxurious one. Then the other installed an airconditioner into their house, the other one couldn't afford an airconditioner so he just rambled and complained that it has now become hot in their terrace because the other neighbor's airconditioner would give off warm air. I mean, it was just so funny watching them. I guess your neighbor is just jealous of you my friend. That's why he wants to beat you in almost everything;) It's like having low self-esteem. Just don't worry about those people coz they're the ones who are really pathetic;) No one gets peace of mind in jealousy;D
• Malaysia
23 Sep 09
I agree with you i same way, but It is very stress full living like that, coming back from work and there they are propped up standing by their gate looking at my house waiting for me to get out of my car and smirk at me and my wife. sometime lurking behind their wall fence looking at my house.
@veronizm (909)
• Philippines
23 Sep 09
Then I would have to say my friend that your neighbors are nothing but pathetic losers. Imagine, they always have lurk around and look at your house, your things, and your way of living. I can just imagine them not sleeping well through the night because of their envy (yes, envy and not just jealousy) over you! You shouldn't be bothered by these kind of people. They're the ones who are on the losing side. Unless of course if your rights and privacy are already stepped upon then you can go ahead and report them to the police or something. But I tell you, you shouldn't waste your time worrying about them. They're the ones who are really pathetic and doens't have any peace of mind ;)
• Philippines
18 Sep 09
hahahaha, i am laughing too. i am sorry that i find this funny, too. i am witness to the same experience, too. when i was younger and studied in the town, i remember my mother getting irritated and irked by a fellow teacher. the fellow teacher always followed buying whenever she finds a new thing my mother wore to the school meeting. she copied the style (and even color, sometimes) of my mother's dress. if my mother's fellow teacher saw my mother with a new bag, she will get hers too (sometimes exactly the same) in the next few days. my mother was very angry with this. we were laughing and we told her not to mind the fellow teacher. our mother said that the fellow teacher may be jealous and envious but just to appease our mother, we told her that it is a good thing that the fellow teacher copied her choices as the teacher finds our mother worth emulating and had become her model. i eveb jokingly told my mother to wear a long gown to the school meetings and wait if the fellow teacher follows suit. . my mother just laughed it off.
• Malaysia
23 Sep 09
It is one thing feeling proud to be a role model, It is another thing when you are being stalked and watched all the time. It would be better If we have some extra income and I'll be able to move out of this neighborhood.
@Kalyni2011 (3497)
• India
27 Jun 11
Hello i had a renter in my home, this lady had no job, her hubby was working abroad and used to send her money, so what she used to do is, just moving around from this home to othere home and nosing in all kids of private matters of others, some are like that, we can't help lol Thanks for sharing God is great, have faith, I wish you a nice day ahead. Kalyani ‘Namastey’. .