helping friends in need

India
September 17, 2009 1:18pm CST
hi I am in a kind of situation in which i know my friends around me need help ,so i ask them out if they need my help ,but for that either they don't respond me(i mean they won't pick up the call seeing my number) or they say they don't want my help . But i won't leave them i try again and again and ask them out ,but i get the negative response.....so if you are in my situation will you try to contact that friend and ask if he or she needs your help again and again or will you just leave that and carry on with your work? these friends of mine have helped me out in the past and now they are in trouble and iam not able to help them ,that really makes me feel sad and sometimes guilty too. How you will deal this kind of situation? Have you been in this kind of situation before? And now too they are talkin to me normally but not telling their problems or asking out my help?
1 response
mohinimandokhot
@mohinimandokhot (184)
• India
19 Sep 09
Your friends are doing this perhaps because you could not help them the last time that they asked for your help. When you are not in a position to help your friends, you must let them know the reason why. This way you can avoid misunderstandings. Even now it is not too late to tell them why it was that you could not come to their help the last time. I am sure they will understand. Sometimes a communication gap is responsible for people going far from us. And perhaps they are refusind your help because they really do not need your help!!