Have you "let yourself go"?

hi karen madam, i too maintain a pleasing demeanor to my friends,relatives,all other persons visit me/i visit them,have a nice day

Hi Karen! I cannot pretend and cannot demeanor in certain realtionships. I behave as I am and as I should behave. I am same from outside as I am from inside. I do take special care of my near and dear ones and love to serve them.

Hi Peacefulwmn, it may be said that life is all about relationships. We spend our whole life with people whether at home, work, or in in business. When relationships are working, there is happiness and when there is conflict, there is constant grief. I have to trace all the reasons why the other person is wrong, and expect them to change. Inevitably, the other person is also singing complaints and waiting for the other to change. So nothing improves and over time tension builds up to destroy the relationship, but not before a lot of suffering has been experienced. If, within the process of relationships, I am careful from the outset not to take things for granted, major problems would not arise. There is a need to be understanding, sympathetic, respectful, forgiving and not to have expectations. Once we have this understanding, relationships can become more effective or at least we learn to get along with others.

What u see is what u get w/me, lol. As long as i'm clean i'm happy. I have never been one to fix up alot not that i don;t need to of course.

Hello my friend PeacefulWmn9 Ji, Well I try and resist/sallow in first time, but in npersistant condition, I will give away with and just forget it. May God bless You and have a great time.

No, I didn't let myself go and never will. For a lot of people the relationship was their motivation. So, after the relationship was achieved, they were no longer motivated to continue looking their best. As a result, many have ended up in divorce court or learned their mate was visiting a greener pasture (no pun intended). I am happy with the skin I'm in and I like what I see in the mirror when I look my best. It's a personal confort and a heathy self image that motivates me.

Honesty with me; it really doesn't matter who I am around.. It has to do with more of my mood.. If I am having a low, well i do not care.. then when I am at my normal or high peak then I do more to look good... The only exception to this is when I am meeting someone new for the first time, or if I am going to work..

yes in some point if my man cheats on me i will let him go,it is painful but i do not want to continue relationship that full of lies and dishonesty.i just cant leave in that way.