Would you wait?
@FightingFreedom (281)
Singapore
November 13, 2006 11:27pm CST
Something for you to think about...
If one day you fell in love with someone whom is married and might be filing for separation in a year's time. Would you wait?
If the person would very much love to be with you, but can't file for divorce in the near future. Would you wait?
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@sunnylovesdaniel (429)
• United States
14 Nov 06
I DON'T THINK I CAN EVER WAIT FOR A MARRIED MAN. NO I KNOW I WON'T WAIT FOR A MARRIED MAN. THAT IS JUST PURE WRONG. I WOULD HAVE TO MOVE ON NO MATTER WHAT KIND OF LOVE I HELD FOR HIM. JUST THE FACT BEING THAT HE COLD DO THAT SAME THING TO ME. I WOULDN'T DO THAT. NOW I HAVE WAITED FOR SOMEONE BEFORE AND HE WASN'T MARRIED OR IN A RELATIONSHIP HE JUST WANTED TO GET HIS LIFE STRAIGHTENED OUT AND THEN WE WOULD BE TOGETHER. AND THAT IS WHAT EXACTLY HAPPENED. THANK YOU FOR THIS QUESTION AND I HOPE YOU GET TONS OF RESPONSES FOR IT. :)
@FightingFreedom (281)
• Singapore
14 Nov 06
just for discussion sake...
lets say that if you didn't wait for the person, but the person left his wife for some reasons before you know him, then he could also do the same to you too isn't it? so does that mean you would not go for a divorced man?
well i do hope that i get tons of respoinses for this topic =)
@melody1011 (1663)
• India
14 Nov 06
If I fell in love with a married man I would not do anything about it. Its not right for me to break up another family. Since he is already married and maybe even having kids I would definetly try to fotget about him. Cuase the same thing might happen to me even if he did leave his wife. What if he left her and married me?? would he also leave me for a younger woman?? That would always be at the back of my mind.
@FightingFreedom (281)
• Singapore
14 Nov 06
well i do agree with you that the same thing might happen to you, but then if the guy truely love you, then i guess he will not leave you for another younger woman...
could i ask whether have you succeeded in letting go of the relationship?
@FightingFreedom (281)
• Singapore
14 Nov 06
what if the couple have some problems before you come into the pic and that one of them (the one you love) is looking at the possibility of filing of separation?
@FightingFreedom (281)
• Singapore
14 Nov 06
well if someone else actually comes into your life, would you still wait till the two years is up? or would you give up the wait and start off with another relationship?
wat if say 2 months later after you given up and that you have already committed into another r/s, the person whom you are waitin for suddenly comes back and tells you that he/she hopes to be with you. wat would you do?
