How do you react if somebody says that you don't look good?

@daliaj (5674)
India
September 18, 2009 3:57am CST
I just don't care. I know that I am good looking and I am very confident about that. Many people have told that too. Once one of my good friends tried to irriate me saying that I don't look good, but it didnt' work with me. Have you ever faced such a situation? What will be your response if somebody says that you are not good looking?
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@bamrahkirti (1821)
• India
18 Sep 09
I am good looking or i should say that i am very thankful to God that i am physically able to do whatever i like to do.I am also thankful to him that he has given me a beautiful heart and sensible mind to perform deeds.
@daliaj (5674)
• India
18 Sep 09
That is a very good answer. I like your respone. It really matter whether you are beautiful at heart or not. You can look good physically, but if you are not good internally, some day or the other things will come out and people will realize that you are not good. I am lucky to find a person who is good at heart. Thanks for the response.
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• India
18 Sep 09
You made my day Daliaj.
• India
18 Sep 09
Dear daliaj, I really know how I am and no matter I'll feel for that if anyone does a comment on me. I too have faced that situations and I'll tell them this is not the face given by anyone... It is given by God and no matter how bad or ugly it seems but it is God who has seen it as good and made it. I never feel for that. But more often I received better comment from many that I am good looking... Cheers.... Have a great day always....
@daliaj (5674)
• India
18 Sep 09
It seems you are sure about your looks are you are pretty confident about that. It is a good attitude. We don't have to fall when others try to pass bad comments or try to irritate us. But, I make sure that I don't pass these kinds of comments directly to people. Thanks for the reponse.
@2babita (1072)
• India
18 Sep 09
Well,it can happen but i think we must always think positive.In this world God has made beautiful and ugly.If anybody say this to me i will definite feel hurt bucz looks may not be good but my inside is good.Though i think i am not so bad looking then also.Bucz everybody thinks herself beautiful.
@daliaj (5674)
• India
18 Sep 09
That is a very good attitude and my hats off to it. God has created everybody beautiful. I may not be pretty in your eyes, but will be very pretty in somebody else's eyes. Beauty depends on the eye of the person looking. Even if I find that one person is not that good looking; I don't immediately throw a negative comment. Thanks for the response.
@GADHISUNU (2162)
• India
18 Sep 09
It depends at what stage of your life you are told this.If someone you highly regard says so at a time when you were forming an opinin about your looks or personality, then the negative impact that one has would be tremendous. But let's say you are well into your life and then someone says this and you had the good luck of having been told by someone that you look good, then it would not have any effect. For a person who has proven himself/herself in some way it really has very little impact.
• India
19 Sep 09
Hello Dalia A nice question indeed. If some one says I dont look good I will simply will not bother about it. I know what I am and I am sure my good thoughts will make me look pleasant. So I take it cool. Happy mylotting
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
18 Sep 09
well i respect what other says if i look not good with my dress.there is no heartache.i am frank person so i also react to somebody if i find her not good in dress she wear.
@daliaj (5674)
• India
18 Sep 09
Thanks for the difference. There is a lot of difference between 'not looking good' in the dress and 'not looking good at all'. It is fine to take the first one, but it is not that easy to take the second one. If we like one person by character, you will think she is pretty regarless of her looks. Happy mylotting.
@victorywp (3524)
• United States
18 Sep 09
yes, i did face such a situation. i also replied the same as you. i am confident with my own looks & i don't need others' recognition on this. LOL! however, it still depends on who the person's profession. if the person is a hair stylist, fashion designer, appearance consultant, etc, i might listen to his/her comment & suggestion. if that person is just a normal person, his/her critics will never influence me. :D
• American Samoa
18 Sep 09
ii wish everyone is handsome and pretty so that topics like this wont appear :d bu tin reality, the world will be imbalanced if all things are positive. of course the world is created in opposite. the handsome ones cannot be handsome if there is no ugly ones. the same with the ugly ones. but when someone tries to tell us that we are not good looking? reply to them that the world will not be completed without us ^_^