Do you dicuss with friends before getting committed in a relationship?

@hireshd (490)
India
September 18, 2009 12:32pm CST
Many a times we think about someone as the perfect one for us and we tend to think about him/her to spend the entire life. Do you discuss with your friends before taking a final decision or the decision is all yours without anyones elses involvement?
5 responses
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
19 Sep 09
most of the time i tell them that's why most of the time they disagree with me but for a short span of time, they tend to accept my boyfriend as my lover... :D
@Archie0 (5634)
19 Sep 09
sometimes, when i am in confusion only at that time.. after all its my life and its up to me whom i am choosing must be good but yeah sometimes,i do discuss about him with my friends..only with my best friend:)
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
i don't consider my friends as a hindrance when it comes to choosing my partner but i seek advices to them... :D
@lovedude (4447)
• India
19 Sep 09
Nops. not before taking final decision. but yeah I had consider my friends after taking decision.. I first called my all friends and we had introduction party then I had introduced her to my other relatives.
@marty3888 (2355)
• Acme, Michigan
18 Sep 09
Not in the least. I want to make my own decision on something as important as that. If I've picked someone, fell in love with her and friends or family said "she's not right for you," I probably wouldn't listen anyway.
• India
18 Sep 09
I am also committed. Its being now a year. I always felt that she is the perfect one for me ...and never the feeling of discussing with the friends came to my mind...
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
18 Sep 09
no i don't discuss with my friends before getting committed in a relationship...because of my thinking...if you making any friend's it's depend on your nature...if your nature is friendly,...then you will find every person wana be committed friend's with you..