Are you ready to wait for the perfect one?
By hireshd
@hireshd (490)
India
September 18, 2009 8:48pm CST
Hi friends, consider you got a proposal from a guy/girl and after knowing him a bit you are not sure of he/she is the perfect one for you but he/she loves you so much will you accept him/her or you would wait for the perfect one to enter in your life?
Are you ready to leave a person who loves you so much??
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5 responses
@anurag3786 (6265)
• India
19 Sep 09
yaa...i am ready to wait for the perfect one....and i have many questions in my mind related to my dream girl..how she looks like....and what she...want....etc...but i want a simple living girl..who gave respects to my feelings...and imotions..i don't want fashinable girls...i prefer only simple girl..
@Archie0 (5654)
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19 Sep 09
According to my opinion, when your love for someone is pure, you always want her/him to be happy. All your happiness depends on that someone's happiness. As it is said "Love don't ask:"DO U LOVE ME?" Love only says....:"I LOVE U"..." Practically when we love someone, there will be expectations and we will wait for it. We would like to marry and have happy life. But waiting will not be for long. We 'll marry or find someone else. But when our heart touches ultimate and purest feelings of love for someone, this waiting will not have any limit and we keep on loving that person knowing that He/she will never be mine. We want to get our love but not at the cost of her/his happiness.
@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
20 Sep 09
To be perfectly honest, it doesn't matter how much he/she loves you. if you don't love him/her then you should NOT get married. Being married is hard enough between 2 people who truly love each other. Going into a marriage where you don't truly love the other person is begging for disaster!!! I dated a guy for 15 years & every year he'd ask me to marry him. I said NO for 15 years even feeling guilty because he loved me so much. Then I told myself that he had enough love for BOTH of us. Then I met a man I truly loved. Just think...had I married the one who loved me that I didn't love, I would have been in a mess!!! So NEVER marry someone because they love you & you don't love them. ONLY marry someone who you love them deeply & they love you deeply back!!!!
@delkar (1712)
• Romania
19 Sep 09
I think that i would give it a try. because when someone loves you , and shows you that, then you`ll be happy with that person for a wile , until you`ll see if you`re just like her or not. When you are with someone , she will show it to you all her abilities and what`s bad on her . That`s the easiest way to see if you really like her a lot , or it was just for a moment . Maybe she`s the one for you, or maybe you were wrong . God knows who`s perfect for you . But i don`t belive in perfect girl, or something like that. I think that we should think first what can we provide to our partner , and then to ask for them .
@bmuchler (441)
• United States
19 Sep 09
I would ask the guy/girl to slow down. I would tell them I wasn't ready. A person should never get married if they aren't ready. I have seen a lot of marriages break up because people have jumped into it.
When you get married it should be to someone that you know is the one. This may take time to figure out. If someone loves you and you are not sure if you love them and go ahead with the proposal, would you be happy? What happens if 6 months or a year down the road and you figure out that the guy/girl is not the one, what would happens then?
I would say give it time. Be sure you are ready and be sure that he/she is the right one for you. When this happens, you will know.
