Being Someone's 2nd Choice

United States
September 19, 2009 1:47am CST
It seems like girls never really pay any attention to me until they've been rejected by someone else or they want to make their current boyfriends jealous. A lot of guys would take it as an opportunity to pick up girls, but I've gotten tired of it. If I had a dollar for every time a girl started talking to me, then stopped because someone "better" started to pay them attention, then came crawling back to me when Mr. Perfect didn't turn out to be what they wanted him to be, I'd be rich...Not really, but you get what I'm saying. Feel free to share your thoughts, comments, and experiences.
3 responses
@eLsMarie (4477)
• New Zealand
24 Sep 09
maybe you were just blind of the fact that there are other girls who are yearning to be courted by you... you just simply chose the wrong girl/s.
@taztheone (1721)
• India
19 Sep 09
The day I become any gal's second choice, I would call myself a Looser that day. Always remember that girls are not attracted by glamor only, character is what they look at more & that's the reason why not so good looking guys have hot babes as girlfriends. Remember it's Survival for the fittest so the better you are the better will others pay attention to you. You will become better by experience so learn from life rather than ignoring the lessons. Even if You are not rich, even if you are not beautiful, people will stay with you if your character or behavior is good because character is the most important thing in any relation & rest can be used only for the first time impression. Good character doesn't mean being a nice gentleman, even a devil can be good if he has a good heart & knows people management. This is what I think from my personal experience. Hope you will understand something. Happy Lotting
• India
19 Sep 09
Well, you are still lucky, though. Girls have never seen me as a prospective boyfriend. The most I have managed to be is like a brother to them!! Or else, I'm totally invisible to them. But at times, I feel as though this is better. At least I'm independent to do whatever I like, whenever I like.