messed up wit feelings u just cant decide wat to do..?
@angelgirl_JNM (64)
Canada
September 20, 2009 1:47am CST
Hey.. Currently I have a messed up life apearently.. As in 3 different relationships but very similar wit 3 different guys. I know it sounds crazy but none of them actually lives in my City and only 1 lives in my Country.
Ok so this is how its started I met a guy talking online but than he met my sister he told me he liked her so we stayed friends problem is he said he wanted to be wit me and not her but in the main time I met guy#2 online pretty much the same way so I continued talking to both and it was alright.. but than I met guy#3.. If I had to pick 1 it'd probably be him but I dont know how to tell the others without hurting them or losing them as friends and I cant decide if I really want to pick 1 or try to be friends wit all 3.
so.. If any of u MyLoters have suggestions or something to say it would really help alot.
- thanks
5 responses
@amandakringle (109)
• United States
24 Sep 09
Sounds like a difficult situation. I dont think that there would be any problems being friends with all three, I mean we could all use more friends, but anything more would be bad for you. I think that you should find the one that would make for the best relationship and that you think would be the most beneficial to be with, then be straight up and honest with the other two. Still being friends is fine but even though they dont live around you doesnt mean that it would be good for you to carry on three monogamous relationships.....now if you are straight up and say well I am in a relationship with all three of you, they either like it or they dont, its your decision and they have to deal with that. Although I think that it would be just plain out easier for you to have just one guy in a long distance relationship. GoodLuck !!!! :)
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
i can really tell than you're having fun with these three different guys but be careful. be careful in a way that you may possibly fall from one of these guys and end up hurting yourself more. i think it would be best for you to have a relationship to somebody whom you've never encountered through online chatting or whatever. but it's your choice that will prevail in the end... :D
@Mirita (2668)
• United States
21 Sep 09
Well, be honest with those two guys and everything is
going to be okay. Even if they like you, they'll understand
and you can always remain friends. Is best to tell the
truth instead of not saying anything just because we don't
want to hurt people's feelings.
@mohinimandokhot (184)
• India
20 Sep 09
If you are talking about friendship only, then it is possible for you to be friendly with all three of them. And it is better you don't get involved with any one of them for you will feel bad and hurt if any of them has to leave you . Just be nice to them all and you will feel happy to have so many friends. and you can tell this to the guys also and I am sure that they will respect you for the honesty that you have shown.
@morningstar1972 (5)
• United States
20 Sep 09
I'd say enjoy it. all of them are long distance relationships, so the chances ofthem meeting are slim. I'd be open with letting them know you aren't exclusive though, after all, there isn't a ring on your finger.
