Friends & friendship, how far can we go?
By nuemann
@nuemann (332)
United States
September 20, 2009 7:05pm CST
Hello I need you people to help me draw me the line between friends and lovers, because I tend to engage myself totally in my relationships that I just cant let go even when my friends have moved on (females) My kind of friendship seem not to care about who they are sleeping with with or whom they are marrying. I just want to be close to them emotionally, spiritually and more. I woudn't mind if she is sleeping around as long as am the one she tells her heart to and keep the bond going no matter the circumstances. Am I sick or seem to be begging for attention? I really need to know!
2 responses
@BStuff (495)
• United States
21 Sep 09
I use to have this same problem. 
I am a very dedicated person and I would just give so much to all my friendships (surprisingly not so much to all my actual relationships) I would do anything and everything for my friends which put me in horrble position in the end. I began friends designated drivers everyweekend. I moved in with friends wasting tons of money because I thought they needed my help. I gave and gave and gave. I have since realized its okay to be a great friend just you need to be on the same level of friendship as the other person and never do things that dont really make you happy but makes them happy.
I am a very dedicated person and I would just give so much to all my friendships (surprisingly not so much to all my actual relationships) I would do anything and everything for my friends which put me in horrble position in the end. I began friends designated drivers everyweekend. I moved in with friends wasting tons of money because I thought they needed my help. I gave and gave and gave. I have since realized its okay to be a great friend just you need to be on the same level of friendship as the other person and never do things that dont really make you happy but makes them happy.