Do the American couple AA the cost in everything?
By qqyyzk469
@qqyyzk469 (108)
China
September 20, 2009 8:18pm CST
I heard that the cost is AA in everything even in couple.Is it true?How could it work in a couple?A couple is life together and raise the same child and eat everything together,how does the AA work?I am very confused...
In China,once married,all the money belong to the couple,unless they notarize their own property but the property after marriage belongs to the couple.And the cost never go halves and once it happened the love between them may have risk.
It is a different culture but how could it be cleared between a couple because there are so many things.
What do you think?
1 response
@grandpa_lash (5225)
• Australia
21 Sep 09
I am totally unclear about what you mean by AA. It is not a term used here at all in such a context.
Lash
@fruitcakeliz (2641)
• United States
21 Sep 09
thanks for asking for clarification lash...i am curious as to what it means as well....
@qqyyzk469 (108)
• China
21 Sep 09
I am sorry,I thought you understood..It means the money spending on everythings go fifty-fifty.
@grandpa_lash (5225)
• Australia
22 Sep 09
In that case, I think you'll find that some people see it your way (I do, for instance), and others, particularly those of the modern Western generation (don't know abo0ut non-Western) go the other way. The latter goes hand in hand with the concept of prenuptial agreements, which are all about money, and seems to be a major element in the selfish, me first generations that have recently developed. It is also a tacit acceptance that marriage is no longer expected to last long.
Lash
