Are you Tired living your Life?

@jeiay41 (674)
United States
September 20, 2009 9:38pm CST
People think around me i'm a common person who do the way others do, their wrong. Deep inside of me i tired of this life and i want to end this. I try different ways to divert myself and make me busy at all times. But never the less i'm helpless to my situation im in to. I hate my life now, if you only your in my situation i think you also want to end this as soon as possible. For you mylotters, do you feel there no point continuing your life and your just wasting time living your life on your current situation. And if you persevere the said situation of yours, what steps you made to overcome your life and live on.
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@Shar19 (8231)
• United States
21 Sep 09
I think everyone has felt this way at some point or other in their lives. We must go on though. It is all part of living and growing up. We deal with what life has to offer us. Things may seem bad at times but better times are always ahead. If you constantly feel terrible though then I would suggest you talk to someone professionally who can help guide you with your feelings.
@jeiay41 (674)
• United States
22 Sep 09
I don't know what to expect what future may come towards me. I feel numb to everything they throw to me. I'm helpless and hopeless right, i feel nobody can hear me. Maybe this is only a trial need to deal with, i'm sure i can past this situation in a positive way.
@Shar19 (8231)
• United States
22 Sep 09
You will learn how to deal with these feelings in time. Life hands us all kinds of situations. Good and bad. It's all just a test to make us even stronger.
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
you think your life is more tiring?? well my life is... lets just say.. its because of myself... supposed to graduate in college then i get pregnant.. the guy who got me pregnant does not have a job and also does not want to have a job.. yes i know its very frustrating folks.. my mom does not want the baby and my family does not care about the baby.. i dont have a job and i am not able to have a job for i keep vomiting. and vomiting because of my condition.. so right now im looking for a homebased job to keep this baby alive inside my tummy .. what im worried is that i havent been able to get a check up to see whats happening to my child inside... i dont know how many months the child is like i said i havent been able to go to the clinic and have my prenatal... so im also worried if where the hell am i gonna get money when the time comes the baby has to pop out!!! well its my fault really at the first place.. sigh...
@jeiay41 (674)
• United States
22 Sep 09
That's what you called problem creator. You create your own black hole that will eventually suck you up in the near future. THat's not what you call tired of life cause you need to fix your problem that make you feel busy. Every time is precious to you right now and every moves counts. Your life will never be tiring because you have an ongoing problem to your life. You still have a road to walk through girl, just pray and God will guide you in the right path.
@chaime (1152)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
Yes, there are times when I think to myself, if there is a point to all these madness. But then I see my daughter and my son and know that there is much, much to live for. I trudge on, drawing strength in knowing that life is worth living that I want to see my children grow up, have families of their own. I look forward to when I'll be carrying my grandchildren on my lap. yes, sometimes life can be overwhelming and they can 'try' to overcome, but you know what... life is worth living. I just look towards the future. Look towards the can be's and not the cannot be's. and most of all, I pray and seek guidance from a higher being I know can guide me towards the life I want to live. I strive so that my children can provide for my children and provide for what they want as well. I think my family is what makes me want to live more, live further, so I go to them in times when there is a need for me to be lifted up
@jeiay41 (674)
• United States
22 Sep 09
How if you don't any to look forward to does it mean its not worth to live? Fear not, I also have a goal to my life, my parents didn't raise me for nothing. The only thing it bothered me on this present time is my on going life sytle. I always ask myself, when will this stop?
21 Sep 09
jeiay41, I think we both are in same boat, even I am also frustrate with my life.. and just want to kill myself as soon possible.. I don't know what I am doing in earth without any aim. I always find some new way to busy myself but it all waste..
@jeiay41 (674)
• United States
22 Sep 09
I feel you. Sometimes I forgot what brings me here but when i remember that I have dreams to full filled I always ask myself, how long will i waste my time to reach that goal. I'm not frustrated because i don't have any aim to my life its just i got tired to this life because its been awhile and it seems nothing is changing. Maybe one day light will come up and i'll be surprise to what i surferred in the past and glory to the future.
@jules67 (2788)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
I do get tired once in while but I never really said to myself that I was tired living my life. I know that there are still good things out there that is going to happen not just for me but for everybody. We need not lose hope.
@jeiay41 (674)
• United States
22 Sep 09
Does hope keeps you on hold on what you want to your life. How about if it takes 10 years to see a positive sight to that hope you holding, do you still want to keep it. Hope is just a reason for you to keep on fighting, but for me hope is same as a balloon release in mind air, you'll never know when it will come back again. For now i'm looking for ways to shorten this bored some of life and hopefully to find it asap.
@jen14ed (865)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
hi jeiay41 yes I'm so tired of my life I always at home in the front of the computer i like somethings new, new Emviroment new place, i like to leave without my parent i like to be independent, because my parent is always control my life, I'm mature I'm not a child anymore to control my life of my parent i like to leave in the other place and find a job there and explore, meet new friends meet new people, and every things!not in the front of the computer everyday
@jeiay41 (674)
• United States
22 Sep 09
I don't think your parents controlling your life, its all about you. You let them control your life that's why they don't let you go. You can make decision as you said why not get a job to change a part in your life style. You still have a long way to go like i do, I don't think you don't have any goal to your life, it just take some time for me to pursue my dream before I move out to this terrible stage of my life.
• Philippines
23 Sep 09
Yes, sometimes I am tired of living my life. My life is like a cycle. Everyday I wake up, go to work, do my online and go home, eat , watch tv, talk to my family and pets and retired. It is always like that. Nothing new, nothing fresh. If a life is like that always , well obviously we will get tired. but I much prefer that kind of life compare to a life with so many problems. It happen to me. My very worst year were 2004 and 2005. my life is miserable during that year. Everyday there is a problem and its getting worst day by day. I want to kill myself to just end it, but I realize I can’t lose during the fight of love. I still believe in God that he will help me a long the way. And I can be able to move on, although problems continues. My life right now I can say it is boring. But I still don’t want to feel I am a loser , I have dreams that waiting for me to be fulfilled. I still dream and I dream everyday. My dream is not easy to achieve, and that is now I am trying to achieve. When I get tired, I look at my neighbor’s life. Most of them have no jobs, I can say they are happy although we are not friends. I think they are just shallow person. I really don’t know if they are satisfied with their life but they can still survive. I am comparing myself to them. They have no jobs , I have. I have to be happy because I am lucky, I can earn money, I can buy things that I want, I can be successful. That makes me feel good and after thinking that, I will go on and fulfilled my role.
@shajerrl (309)
• China
21 Sep 09
yes, sometimes i feel that i am so tired with my life,,my work seems no bright future, need to repay my house loan etc. but in most times, i have seen the good aspect of my life, i love my wife, love my family and also want to see a better future, so when i am always tell me "hope in the future if you don't give up".
@jules67 (2788)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
I do feel tired thinking of the problems, personal and financial. But one does not have to give up. We should continue and move on and live the life we want for ourselves.
@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
i am pretty feel that way almost every day of my life. but still i try to keep a good outlook in life so that i will not give up. i try to remain positive and see opportunities in every trial.
• Canada
21 Sep 09
you seem to be in your toughest situation right now...just remember that it's not just you who might be thinking the same way as how you think now...life is always unfair yes it is...but in some situation that we have and we are feeling...it is sometimes created by us...some people make situations harder when there is an easy way on it, all for one reason...There heart is close...they might be diverting in many things because they want to find something that could bring them satisfaction in their life...and the more they feel they want to find it the more they neglect things around them..things that they might not know, can complete them.,.. some people think they have little on things... little of this and that...but if you start appreciating this little things you have..you'll find out you have so much...so much of love from your family, so much of friends and so much of blessings from God...be grateful enough with your life...the reason we live is to judge ourselves, life/world is made of for love, generousity and harmony but right now it is full of temptation, pride and greed of power...and it is up to us to choose whether we live for love, generousity and harmony or for temptation, pride and greed of power because at the end we all get judgement for what we live for.... When your weary, feeling down, and tired...Lift up your Hands to God and he'll who you the way....
@jeiay41 (674)
• United States
22 Sep 09
Your point is too much to handle. Firstly, i didn't choose this path of my life and also didn't choose the life that I had at this present times. I don't have also any goals to my life that you think I'm not satisfied to what I have today. That's why im tired of it, its pointless to be here and i'm not even worthy enough to live to this world. I feel i'm only a waste or an excess baggage who don't have any use at all. But i still hoping one day i can hold the God's hand and live peacefully forever.
• United States
21 Sep 09
I've been feeling that for as long as I can remember. I've always felt like other people were better than me, stronger than me, smarter than me. I've always felt worthless, like I wasn't good at anything. Then I discovered the few things that I was good at. I focused on those things until the point where I was better at them than anyone else was and I felt a lot better than what I did. No matter how pointless things are, you can't give up. You have to fight. Hope what I said helps.
@jeiay41 (674)
• United States
22 Sep 09
Motivation, that's what always I search for. As of now I never find it and its been awhile since i've in this pointless stage of my life. I will remember that, never give up!
• Indonesia
21 Sep 09
I feel tired now. Every day I must woke up early and I always come to my house late night. All time of my day only for my job in factory. I very tired. Every I go work my son still sleep and when I come to home my son already sleep. That is bad life. I must get more money so I can make store at home and every day play with may son and a lot of time for my wife
@jeiay41 (674)
• United States
22 Sep 09
That's what i'm talking about about. Tired of every day cycle of life and nobody changes and losing your time over and over again makes your life gone to waste. I hope you can find an alternative route to your repeatable life. I also have the same way of life as your but more critical to live with.
• Indonesia
21 Sep 09
yes, some time I feel that wanna die :(
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
22 Sep 09
No never..i don't tired living my life...because...if i tired now..so how i fulfil my dreams..so it's not time to feel tired..that is the time..to do different new...in life.. so i always try to do something in new..in my life..
@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
21 Sep 09
First of all, jeiay, most often, things are not nearly as bad as they might seem! Have you ever heard the expression, Where there's life there is hope? I have found this to be very true. We each have within ourselves the ability to change things if we truly want to. I don't know exactly what your situation in life is, but you must envision how you would like for them to be. Having done this you should take immediate action to start directing your life toward your goal. To answer your question, yes, there have been times when I have grown tired of my life, but I also knew that I had the responsibility of making the best life that I possibly could in order not to let those who care for me down. If you can believe it you can achieve it!
@xhaimacoy (115)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
I really enjoy my staying here in earth, cause of God by my side and my little baby boy i can hug.. :)
@Archie0 (5636)
21 Sep 09
Hello jejay, well yes frankly speaking i am tired of my own life.Its just too much to live alone in your life with no one yet found to love, secondly the usual family fights are now almost become the worst ones which tire me to stop and make them understand, again comes people around me who keep on talking crap about me whereever i go its all just become so much irritating.
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
i had been in your situation...was so depressed, but i never thought of ending my life. always remember, no matter how dim your night is, the sun is surely gonna shine tomorrow.
@Coxi20 (30)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
21 Sep 09
I enjoy my life and I'm not tired living my life. I think I have a good life and I would never change my life.
• Barbados
21 Sep 09
Everyone gets depressed but you shouldn't give up so easily and go as far as wanting to end it. Today might be the lowest low but tomorrow has the chance of being better even if just a little. You might give up today and tomorrow the biggest and greatest thing occurs and your gone. Hang in there and wait for your great thing. It will happen.