"I LOVE YOU" do you still say this often?
By eve301345
@eve301345 (658)
Philippines
September 20, 2009 10:42pm CST
Hi My fellow myloters,
I LOVE YOU is probably one of the word we say everyday and the day wont pass by without saying this many time that we cant even remember how many time we say this to each other. I love my BF and even though a lot of people say action speaks louder than word and even if our action says that we love each other we still say this hundred times in a day.
Its just when I don't hear this from my partner even in just an hour when we are together I feel like there's something missing and I guess I just get use to it because I say this to him every time I get a chance. Its really comforting for me every time I hear it and I know for many of us are the same. With our 5 years relationship it get stronger and stronger because of this as well that we stay sweet and always let each other know how important we are to each other.
How about you do you and your partner still say this to each other often? How many times you tell your love one you love theme in a day? Does he or she appreciate it? How do you feel when your lover doesn't say that to you?
Thanks myloters and happy myloting
4 responses
@babybluebellebj (413)
• Philippines
21 Sep 09
we always saying those words! i guess in an hour, we will say that less than 20 times...saying how much we love each other...and i hope, my partner and i will last like your relationship eve301345 or much longer...we're the same, im feeling weird and im freaking out when 30mins past that i dont hear those words from her...i felt that i will lost her...and saying I love you to her makes my heart beat faster as if im saying it for the first time... those simple sentence is the foundation of each relationship...
@Archie0 (5636)
•
21 Sep 09
Well I don't know whatever works for you is fine. If you really have a problem with him saying it so little, tell him you'd feel better if he said it more. My boyfriend and I usually say it to each other when we say goodbye or after we talk on the phone, but it sounds like it's not that your boyfriend doesn't feel it, he just doesn't want to overuse it. Tell him how you feel though.
@joy_evaldez (461)
• Singapore
23 Sep 09
Even I am married now, my husband still say that to me. I think when you does it regularly, it beacame a habit of some sort. we say I love you especially when saying goodbye through phone calls, parting ways to work, when we are ready to go to sleep and as soon as we woke up. It makes your relationship strong and steady. I do not count how many times he said "I love you' to me, waht matters most is how sincer he is while saying it.
@shajerrl (309)
• China
21 Sep 09
I alway say " i love you " to my wife but like a joke, and my wife response to me "i love you too" like a joke, but i think it's should be ok to promote our relationship, and I don't need to tell my wife " i love you" in formal style. and my wife can feel that i love her very much, in the same, i also can feel my wife has deeply feeling to me.
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
21 Sep 09
My husband likes to joke about the "I love you" thing but he never fails to comment if I don't say it when it's expected. We end every phone conversation with those words, too. My parents very rarely told us that they love us so I made sure that my children heard those words coming from me often as they were growing up. Now they comfortable say them to the people they love...including me. Of course, I tell my grandkids that I love them ALLLL the time. 
