i hate people who prejudge
By cutepink_13
@cutepink_13 (691)
September 22, 2009 12:52am CST
before when i was so conscious with my body i really diet and went to the gym but recently i got tired and gained weight. i did not mind because my boyfriend accepted me of who i am. but when a friend of my went home for a vacation maybe saw me in a mall gossip to my other friend that i am pregnant. then another story came out that i already have a baby which are all false. i really hate people who right away judge without confirming first. she is my friend and so she can ask me.
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@ruperto (1552)
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
it seems those who are wise are usually silent ... to listen to people ...
Those who are not wise are quick to make a convenient comment, perhaps necause they are only human. It seems to be a stress relief to presume and prejudge ... as one pleases ... perhaps because it feels good .
It seems those who are wise are usually silent :)
What do you think?
Cheers
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out themselves.@ruperto (1552)
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
So true, when people look inside themselves, there will be a lot of change that will be needed.
This seems to be the ultimate in self-awareness. To realize that the anger in the self can be removed only by the self. By realizing that we are all ... one ....
In communities of highly educated people, we never hear any one say odd about another. People understand, so people listen and finally, perhaps most importantly, they learn to understand. And in the silence, the more and more conquer, the geatest adversary of self ... the selfish self.
May the peace be where we are... ("if not perhaps its time to move on ... " but hen again perhaps its only me :) )
God Bless
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@cutepink_13 (691)
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22 Sep 09
probably your right. a wise person talks about things to discover maybe but low people have some fun of talking about other people. its okay to gossip if the intentions are good but just a plain gossip well thats another story.
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@kalav56 (11464)
• India
22 Sep 09
I am sorry for the way your friends has made a sweeping statement like thta and it si natural for a person to even disbelieve her good intentions as a friend.It may have been said in light vein but these things ought not be said wihtout confirmation.
I too hate it if people jump to conclusions.
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@thebreadwinner (131)
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
Yes prejudging is really bad.Sometimes you can got it right but most of the times it's misleading!
