Would you give your daughter a gift like this?

@mipen2006 (5528)
Australia
September 22, 2009 2:23am CST
The wealthiest man in Queensland, a northern state of Australia gave his daughter a AUD5 million yacht for her birthday. She turned fifteen! What are your thoughts on this? And now how will he come up with a twenty-first present? Personally, I think it's ridulous, and his daughter will probably have no respect or value of money. The yacht belonged to an IT business man who suffered due to the financial crises. He had it built for eight million Australian dollars. I'd love your thoughts.
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@shajerrl (309)
• China
22 Sep 09
i will not give my daughter a gift like that even i was rich like that. the education for children should teach them how to get their favorite gifts on her/his own effort. you are right that his daughter will probably have no respect or value of money when he/she grow up.
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
23 Sep 09
Hi shajerrl, you're right, as far as I can see her value of money will be, "Daddy, can I have ..." This is no way to bring up a daughter. Thanks for responding.
@dianmelydia (2269)
• Indonesia
22 Sep 09
I think the wealthiest man in this case was overacting. No need to give such expensive gift for a teenager. I think that man is not teaching her daughter how to value the hard earned money, but he just teach her how to spend as much as money they have for their own prestige. This is a bad idea and that young girl would turned out to be a bad girl one day if his father still doing like this. As a wealthiest man, he should preparing his children how to running a business and how to manage their wealth, instead of spending their wealth. But however it's up to them. We are not a wealthiest person in our area so we can't understand how did they think about this matter. Those money are them, so we don't have any rights to say about their expenses. Good luck and have a nice day. Happy mylotting.
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
23 Sep 09
Very well said, dianmelydia, and I agree with everything you say. He would have been far better off investing the money for his daughter. I gues the running of the yacht is also very expensive, so the price tag wouldn't stop at just paying for the boat. Thank you for taking time to respond, and happy myLotting.
@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
23 Sep 09
A yacht is too much for a 15 year old... not unless she is like studying to become a professional in the field of yachting... but i think even if i am that wealthy... i would rather just give my daughter a tickets to travel the world (with me of course) rather than something that requires high maintenance... A lot of rich people have their own way of spoiling their children...
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
23 Sep 09
Hi asertdd, you're right. A ticket to travel would open his daughter's eyes, but the yacht will only give her tunnet vision. Whatever she wants from here on will only mean asking daddy.
@mzz663 (2772)
• United States
23 Sep 09
If I had the money to get any of my kids gifts like that and I knew it was something they would use, I probably would. The cost of it and probably the insurance policy on it most likely are a good investment and if he bought it for $3 million cheaper than it cost to build, I'd say she has something to cash in at a later date if she needs the money.
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
23 Sep 09
Hey mzz, it actually was built at a cost of 8.3 million Australian dollars, and belonged to another former, wealthy man, who lost it all during the financial crises. So investment wise, it would seem good, but to give it as a birthday present to a fifteen year old is not so good. She cannot afford to run it.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
22 Sep 09
One of the worst forms of child abuse is to over indulge a child to the extent that he or she will have an innate sense of entitlement. This girl will find life very difficult if, as an adult, she is ever faced with life without wealth; she will have no idea how to be resourceful without someone handing her everything she wants and needs. It’s quite sad actually...For her...And you’re right, it’s ridiculous!
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
23 Sep 09
Hi paula, I think it shows how irresponsible the father is. I agree that his daughter dayghter will never be resourceful, and never learn the value of money.
@VANILLAREY (1470)
• India
22 Sep 09
If I was rich and had a daughter then, I might have given the same gift. Even when people are not rich they try to give expensive gifts to their children or girlfriend. So if people have plenty of money then why not give big gifts. For us the yacht seems very expensive but for the father it might not be so expensive. If the father would have given a box of chocolates then people would call him a miser who hoards money for himself.
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
23 Sep 09
Hi VANILLARER, in my opinion, the father would have been far better off taking his daughter on a shopping spree, and investing money for her. Thanks for your input.
@crazydaisy (3896)
• Canada
22 Sep 09
I agree with you she dose know how much it's worth and by time she 21 what will he give her then he will be really puzzle it's not price that's count it's the feeling and saying how much you love them ...what's $$$ money any way it's only piece od paper with nu. on it. which I could use... cd
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
23 Sep 09
Hi crazydaisy, some people think you can buy love, but that's not so. I wonder if the father has a consience about not spending more time with his daughter. Thanks for your input.
@xchyler (258)
• Philippines
23 Sep 09
hi mipen! good day to you my friend... You know we love giving gifts to each one of us if we have extra money or we have to gave just to make a person happy. If that's the case like your topic I think it's really bad because she is only fifteen and then she had that kind of gift in her age and to think she cannot make that took care of that yacht how really ridiculous is that and I think the perfect gift that we gave in that age is that maybe a dress ,etc. but not like that .I have 3 kids but I never gave gifts so expensive because I know they are so young and I like the way I brought them ,they appreciate really appreciate whatever things even a small things that I gave to them. GOD BLESS xchyler
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
23 Sep 09
Hi xchyler, and I welcome your comments. What you say is so right, she could never look after the yacht, without dad's help. I think he will use it more than her, but he made this public, so we all know hho owns it if they have a falling out. We give gifts for the love value, not the monitary value. Thanks for your input, and have a great day.
@malpoa (1216)
• India
23 Sep 09
Ah only today i got htis mail about Sultan of Brunei, the richest man of the richest country...His worth increases by 90 euroes every second...He literally sleeps, eats and walks on gold!!! He has got more than 100 expensive cars...he gifts airbuses to his children on their b'days...his own private air bus is lavishly decorated in gold...even his wash basin in his palace is in pure gold...I wish I could attach those photos of his palace, airbus, cars and his daughter's extravagant wedding... People have money and they flaunt it..I think it is as simple as that...In Islam, there is a rule that those who have excess money should give away 2.5% of their money to the poor everyday...Had all the rich paid this amount, there would have been no povery here...
@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
23 Sep 09
Hey malpoa, I know well about The Sultan of Brunei's wealth, but I didn't know about Islamic law you mention. I would love to see some of the worlds richest address some of the poverty in poor countries. However, to do this they would have to avoid the corrupt officials first.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
22 Sep 09
Wow! what a gift! First of all, i could never afford to give mt daughter a gift like that. Fifteen years old is a little young to be a yachtowner in my opinion. This is how spoiled rich girls begin. I agree with you about the daughter not seeing the respect and value of money. When children receive gifts like these we are asking for trouble. Children need time to grow up and know about life before becoming enriched with material possessions that they really don't need.
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
23 Sep 09
Hi sender, you're right, what chance has this girl got. It's well documented how spoiled rich girls turn out, and it's not pretty. Money doesn't buy love.
22 Sep 09
I think I had a Madonna album for my 15th birthday. She's probably a spoilt little snot isn't she! (I suppose that is stereotyping, she might be nice!)
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
23 Sep 09
If she wasn't spoilt before, she certainly is now. However, can money replace love? I think not!
@artistry (4152)
• United States
23 Sep 09
...Hi mipen2006, You would have to take everything into consideration here. These are not your ordinary people. The young woman or child, if you would, has received things during her life that are so much more expensive than other children her age. That is why her father purchased such an ultra expensive gift for her. He will probably purchase an island for her when she turns 16. Maybe she won't value money, but think about it, does she really need to? These people have different mind sets. I noticed from limited observation, that the Trump children appear to be balanced, they both finished college with very good grades, and have jobs. So it depends on how the children are reared, if they have values or not. Take care.
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
23 Sep 09
Hi artistry, and thank you for your input. I can see what you're saying, but in my opinion, gifts are a show of love, not money, and in this case, I wonder if dad is trying to make up for lost time. While the Trump children might be a good example of rich kids making good, there are many examples of others, who had too much as kids, failing in life.
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
23 Sep 09
Hi mipen2006,How lucky his daugter was.On my part,If i have a lots of money,If I am a billionaire why not?Maybe he loves his dauhter so much.He will give erything luxurious to her daugter.For me as long as ican afford I will But with supervition.Thanks,Have a nice day.
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
23 Sep 09
Hey Hazelrose, I wonder what gifts he has given her in the past? Probably even forgotten her birthday! There is no way she could afford to run this craft, so I wonder if he will do that for her until she can afford to. Thanks for your response.
@kylevinz (22)
23 Sep 09
I am a mother of 3 and i really want to buy my kids all the things they want.BUT!but they have to know and learn the things how valuable money is.Its good that, that man is rich..but i think he should be given the expensive yacht when his daughter is responsible enough.
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
23 Sep 09
How right you are kylevinz. Gifts should be something that shows how much love you have for someone, not how much money you have. His daughter will never learn the value of money.
• United States
22 Sep 09
No, absolutely not. That is insane! Giving a gift like that to a teenager is screaming I'm rich and I am going to spoil my child as rotten as I can. Not good! I remember watching a show on a few occasions on either MTV or VH1 about a teen's 16th birthday party. They were always of the wealthiest families-one time a girl was flown to Paris with her mom and friend to buy clothes (they were from America). Insane! And then when the children want more, more, more and they act out when they don't get what they want, the parents are puzzled because they had thought they had all ready done enough to please their child. Nothing is attractive about a spoiled teen. And money sure doesn't make the parent look smart when spent in such ways. Clearly trying to make a statement, and one that merely says "I have more money than I know what to do with."
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
23 Sep 09
Hi princess, and very well said. Actually, the first thing I thought about when I watched this story on television was. Is the father trying to make up for time he should have spent with his daughter? Is he trying to buy her love? If either of these were true, then he's making a big mistake. Thanks for your input.
@EvrWonder (3571)
• Canada
23 Sep 09
I think that your thoughts are right on! How is this to benefit a fifteen year old? Really? She doesn't even have a driver's license! Does she know how to power and maintain a five million dollar yacht? I think this is crazy. will her birthday present on her 21st birthday be a mansion? Perhaps a castle, equipped with servant and a butler? What does a wealthy man do, for his child on their birthdays? Often times, very wealthy people disregard the value of money because they have so much of it, value means nothing anymore. The last thing they have to worry about is the value of money. I think the best present he could of given her would of been a horse, if she doesn't have one already. This way she would learn responsibility and learn to ride!
@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
23 Sep 09
EvrWonder, very true, and the first thing that came to mind, was is he trying to buy his daughter's love? If he is, he's going about it the wrong way. I wonder how much time he ha spent with her. Time and money are similar, they both can be wasted, and they both can be saved. In this case I believe he was wrong.
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
22 Sep 09
I'm with you, that is ridiculous! Outlandish for sure, especially at that age. How many adults do you know have a yacht? And how will she learn the value of a dollar? Of course he's the wealthiest man in Queensland, so they probably don't have to worry about dollars the way the common person does. Of course that doesn't mean to say that one day they will lose their fortune. Many individuals who suddenly come into money, rarely know how to invest or conserve it so they usually end up losing their fortunes. Better to have enough to survive on than to go through financial ruin.
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
23 Sep 09
It is ridiculous, and a bit ironic that the yacht was previously owned by one of the other richest men in Australia, but he lost all in the financial crises. The daughter will never appreciate the value of a dollar. Thanks for responding.
@prinzcy (32322)
• Malaysia
22 Sep 09
Wow, a AUD5 million yacht! That is something. Let just say wealthy people mind work in a different way. They can give a yacht, hotel or even an island to their children but in the same time, they can educate an heir to their throne. Well, sort of~~~ I can't say whether his daughter has respect for money or not since we don't know how she spend it.
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
23 Sep 09
Hi prinzcy, I doubt if his daughter will ever respect money, it will just be a matter of, 'daddy, can I have?" Thanks for the response, and haooy myLotting.
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
hi mipen, you just said, he is the wealthiest. that material thing is nothing to him. i am sure that when he sees his daughter admiring the yatch, that is when the joy in his heart manifests. dont you wish he has adopted you? ann
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
23 Sep 09
Hi ann, I could do with a life boat right now, I'm that broke, so he can still adopt me any time he likes. I wonder if, we was trying to by his daughter's love? Have a great day. Mike.
22 Sep 09
of course not! i'm making my child a brat. can she even use a yatch at 15?!...maybe when she's 21 and provided that she has proven to me that she can be responsible enough to take care of herself and that million worth yatch.
@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
23 Sep 09
Hey radiance, this yacht is not used, it needs a captain and crew. Maybe it's a hint for his daughter to take off. Who knows? Thanks for responding.