Relationships

Hi killabyte, Two months in a relationsho and you are tired of it thats pretty fast. But every relationship has ups and downs and there are times when everyone feels suffocated in a relationship. Those are tough times and thats the time most people take decision to break up the relationship, and that decision is not by thinking rationally. If you analyse is it too big a thing to break up then in 99% cases it is not such a big thing..but you are right there are times when everyone needs space and sometimes finds suffocated and tired of the relationship which he or she valued so much.

I was with my then to be wife for 8 years before we got married and I dont think that I ever got tired of our relationship. We did alot of fun things together and did alot of traveling. We took 2 cruises together and went to alot of other places together. Now I must say that this was my first really big relationship and we were not living together at the time and sometimes I just wanted my space and be alone. She always wanted to be with me whenever possible. Thats kind of got to me sometimes but we ended up marrying. Now that we can be together all the time she does not want to. Not sure what is up with that. We have 3 kids that do take alot of time.

I do not think this is normal however if you are new in a relationship then you might find it a bit strange but see I am with someone more than three years and I do not find it long because I have been having many wonderful moments with the person too, maybe you just need to make yourself a bit busy with other activities too for the time beings.