Is stereotyping a form of prejudice?

Is stereotyping a form of prejudice? - Is Stereotyping a form of prejudice? Is everyone prejudice?
United States
September 23, 2009 7:01pm CST
I wrote a discussion on whether we under or overestimate things we dont understand and I had so many errors in it, I felt I needed to redo. My whole life I have been stereotyped as a nerd, an intellectual or even gay because of the way I look and talk. When people here me talk and look at my size they think Im a nerd. They seem surprised at first, that I can play basketball and will fight even though in most situations I would be outsized. Some think because I can talk in a proper way I must not be that tough or can be taken advantage of or think I some sort of cream puff because I dont like sitting and ego tripping like many men do. But they see me hold my head up high even in the midst of manic depressions. Their stereotyping is a form of prejudice but it is a cultural prejudice. It happens within races, within families and within organizations. Stereotyping is a form of life. The key is how do you turn it to yoru advantage.
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@xfahctor (14113)
• Lancaster, New Hampshire
24 Sep 09
Good discussion. It almost seems as if society is programmed to think in terms of stereotyping and it goes deep in to all aspects of a person, race, gender, looks, size, accents and dialects, where one lives, what one does for work, one's political beliefs,etc. From personal experience, because I am a divorced father, I have been stereotyped as an evil delinquent "absent" father, despite having other children from a previous marriage that I raised all by myself. Because I live in northern New Hampshire, I have been clssififed as a redneck hic. These are two of probably a dozen I could come up with. I guess my bottom line is I know who I am, I like who I am and people can think about me what they want to, it's their loss not botehring to get to know me.
• United States
24 Sep 09
Thanks X I am humbled. I feel you, and I understand as a divorced father with the custody responsibity of raising my 3 children. I promise I understand. Stereotyping is damaging, its limiting and it eats at your self esteem. It hurts to almost have to prove youself in every new group of people you meet because when they see steeotypes come to mind. But Ive learned to take the good with the bad. There are some positives about the stereotype also especially when you rise above and show your much different and a higher level than those parties first thought. Thats gratifying. We can turn our disadvantage into an advantage.
@xfahctor (14113)
• Lancaster, New Hampshire
24 Sep 09
wow, may I ask how old your kids are? I wouldn't worry about what anyone else thinks, the only important ones are those babies, the rest of the world be damnedd, they don't have to raise them.....as long as you know you are doing your best for them nothing else matters. Hang in there, and lady's blessings on you and your family.
• United States
24 Sep 09
My kids are 10, 8 and 5 and they who I care about is still disrupting our lives. Its up and down I rather she forever than what she gives now. Thanks X