Do you still hug and kiss?

Philippines
September 23, 2009 11:30pm CST
Hi Myloters, I use to hear this saying before when I was still young that the sweetness in a couple only last in the first couple of years of the relationship. After being in the relationship I dont believe it anymore because my relationship actually has been getting sweeter and stronger. My partner and I been together for 5 years and everyday we get sweeter and stronger and days pass by. We still say hundred I LOVE YOU everyday, give countless hugs and uncountable kisses. How about you after that long relationship are you and your partner still sweet? If you are not in relationship right now do you really believe that sweetness of a couple doesn't last? Why? Thanks myloters and happy myloting
28 responses
@nemeriza (11)
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
yes we still hug and kisses. my partner and i are already 10 years in a relationship and got married just last may. we still hug and kisses every day. actually the passion and intimacy is still there. we cuddle always and say I love you everyday, actually almost every hour.hehehe i think the duration of it depends on how you love each other 'cause some relationships got tired of each other thats why the sweetness are gone.
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
actually we are married for 4years on civil wedding and got married again in church just this year. isn't it true love or what?
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
oh how i wish are are still like that..there is tooo much strain in our relationship right now that we do not even get to hug or even sleep hugging each other. i miss those times....oh well i hope we will get through this.
• Singapore
24 Sep 09
Maybe after the tension have passed the sweetness that you used to have will come back. Why not try to open it up to him? May it will help. Having an open communication is a key to a successful relationship. Keeping things to yourself will not help to alleviate the situation.
@daliaj (5674)
• India
25 Sep 09
I really believe that love deepens and sweetens as years go by. There are lots of people who think against it. When I got married after being in love many people adviced me that being in love is different from marriage and marriage is the end of love. But, it never happened and the love deepens. Then, those people said that it is because I am newly married, but love stops after a few months or years, but never happened.
@UK_Shree (3603)
25 Sep 09
Well I am in a relationship right now and I have been in it for quite a while now. I think it really just depends on the individual relationship. I am very happy to say that me and my partner still do lots of lovey dovey things all the time and are still very affectionate with each other.
• Malaysia
25 Sep 09
I used to write those hugs and kisses in cards and letters during my courtship. Well, I still do. I have been married for more than two years already and there were times when we got hurt, but we still hug and kiss each other. It is great to hear that you have a warmth relationship with your partner. I do believe that sometimes a relationship tends to lose its fire, that is why I keep reminding myself that love is something that we need to nurture every day. Like the old saying, 'marriage is not the end of a relationship, but it is just the beginning...'
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
25 Sep 09
ya..sometime..i still hug and kjiss to my girlfriend...lol.. because..doing this..i think..you can..improve your love with someone.. so always try to hug and kiss..
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
I have been with my fiance for 2 years now. We've gone through much in the past years and I think we are doing a great job in keeping the sweetness alive despite distance and the many fights and challenges along the way. We do say I love you to each other everytime we get the chance. We also make it an effort to do simple things like leaving messages on each others social accounts and dashboards. we also love simply talking and talking and talking about anything and everything under the sun. I know 2 years isn't that long. And with lots of effort from him and me, I see it going a long way :) His parents have been together for over 30 years. Mine are the same. Both couples still kiss and hug a lot and do sweet stuff for each other... Good examples :)
• China
25 Sep 09
Good topic! Me too! My honey and I have been together for more than 10 years. We still like hug and kiss. We have formed a habit! I love this habit! We do love each other.
@leoling (173)
• Singapore
25 Sep 09
I think sweetness alway last in relationship, as long as the couple commit to the relationship. My girlfriend and me going to be 3 years, we still love each other, hug and kiss as well. Although we got some quarrel, our love bond get stronger everytime we solve our problems.
@zzyw87 (1254)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
I don't like public displays of affection. But I like showing my love privately or when there are only my friends and family around. In public, I just hold hands with my guy and that is it. There are no hugging and kissing in public. Fortunately, my boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for years now and we are still as sweet as our first month together. I think sweetness between a couple only lasts if you still love each other.
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
25 Sep 09
My husband and I have been married for a year and a half and we've been dating for almost 6 years and we still do the sweet and cute things. Say I love you, kiss, hug and do sweet things for the other. I believe that no matter how long you have been in the relationship as long as you continue to keep the sweetness going and not letting it die then you will still have that sweetness in the relationship. My husband and I have been together for almost 6 years and we still have that sweetness and you and your significant other also have been together for 5 years and have that sweetness. So I believe it doesn't die unless you let it die.
• United States
24 Sep 09
Hi Eve! That is so sweet! About you and your partner! Keep that going! As for me, yes my BF and I are just like the two of you! With the sweet text messages, sweet kisses, the love yous, hugs and so on! I think expressing each others love is such a beautiful thing! I wouldn't be able to be in a relationship where my partner didn't show me as much love! Thank God we found them first right? Take care sweetie!
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
Hi eve301345,I am married for almost 30 years,and I'm very proud to say that our relationship going stronger and sweeter as years go by.We are not vocal about saying I Love You but for us action speaks louder.Sweetness of a couple last forever.It depends on you how you handle relationship.Thanks Good Luck
@kylevinz (22)
25 Sep 09
yes!we do that still!we are 17 years married!still hugging and kissing!:)
@niitesh (1653)
• India
24 Sep 09
It is great to hear that your still in such a great relationship, hug and kisses are a way to show you care for each other and as long as the spirit is there we can never abstain from it.
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
my husband and i are married for 8 years now. so far nothing has changed in our relationship. we are still the same happy couple as when we got married. we still kiss and hug all the time never get tired of saying that 3 magic words I?U. my husband still love to give me suprises, brings me flowers and chocolates...in my opinion if we really are with somebody who is destined to be our love and partner and probably a soulmate, we'll never get tired loving that person.
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
24 Sep 09
Hi Eve, During my dating time, I enjoyed every moments with my boyfriend (he is my husband now). We were dating for about 4 years before settle down and now we have a little one to accompany us all day. The sweetest memories during my courtship is still fresh in my mind,I miss that Special MOMENTS. We will meet everyday after work,have dinner together, then my boyfriend will sent me back home. Sometimes , we will have a short holiday together for relax.We enjoyed every seconds and minutes being together. As long as there is mutual trust between each other, the relationship is also there and everyday is a Valentine Day !!!
@kevchua (1004)
• Malaysia
24 Sep 09
Yes i still hug and kiss. It's natural feeling, and natural action. It's a nice feeling to be hugged and kissed. And it bonds the relationship even more. Keep hugging and kissing.
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
hug and kisses is more enough than saying i love you. you can feel the love through kiss and hug. it will also makes you feel comfortable. the tight hug that will tell you that no matter what happened you will never be alone. and the kiss that makes you feel love.
@kid221 (150)
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
That's nice Eve.. The simple gestures of hugging and kissing our loved ones means so much for them. Even if there will no words to speak, these gestures surpass all I Love Yous uttered. The more you are physically in contact with each other, through hugs and kisses, and saying I love you will make the relationship more stronger. This will also make your loved one feel very wanted. Let's give our loved one hugs and kisses for a long lasting relationship...