Have you ever been into this?
By shadow41
@shadow41 (2351)
Philippines
September 24, 2009 12:03am CST
Have you ever seen the girl/man of your dreams and then he/she's not into you? It's the perfect girl/man for you. He/she is the one you've been dreaming to live and spend the rest of your life with. You fell in love with her/him the first time you saw her/him. But you can't be with her/him cause he/she doesn't like you. And you have to move on and be with someone else and yet you still feel something for your dream man/woman. You're still wishing to be with her/him. Have you?
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@climber7565 (2566)
• United States
25 Sep 09
OH yes I have been there. I found her and we connected from day one. We met in one of the most incredible scenarios, and kept talking for 6 wonderful years, but our paths grew apart and we went our separate lives. I still have feelings for her but those feelings must stay put into loving my fond memories about her. I will never forget her. I got really hurt and even moved to a different state from that break up. So I must live too and move on. I have the right to find someone who will love me back.
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@climber7565 (2566)
• United States
25 Sep 09
IT was devastating indeed. IT took me 7 years to get over her, so I could move on. So my friend you are luckier, you can sure find one that is for you if you let your dreams take you there. I promise you will. I have learned that humor, making some money and staying fit will help you get closer to your girl of your dreams, be loving and funny, but never a push over.
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@shadow41 (2351)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
Aghh that's sad. I'm glad you got over it. I think i would lose my mind if i'm in your position. So maybe you're right that im luckier not to experience that type of situation. And I think I already found my dream girl and I think I can never be with her but who knows? Im still young. Thanks for the advice. You're right about making some money. I think it's one cause why i can't be with my dream girl. She's rich and I'm not. The gap between us is like heaven and earth. Got to strive hard... wohoh. haha.
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@rainmark (4302)
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24 Sep 09
Yes, been into this when i was a teenager. It little bit hurt at first, but after few months, i've been feel better and we stays friends. He already married now and i'm married too now to a wonderful person, and i never ever fancy him anymore.
Happy myLoting.
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@skysuccess (8857)
• Singapore
24 Sep 09
shadow41,
People often seek for companionship with qualities similar to themselves - be it mindset, lifestyle, personality or even 'status'. Likewise, you should source for the same kind of friendship in that sense.
It's a vicious cycle - the more you reckon that people don't involve you in their activities or cliques, the more withdrawn you become. In that sense, you are the one that push people away, subtly, from you and not vice versa because everybody would be thinking that you prefer isolation but in actual fact, you don't.
And of course, the mind would take its defensive stance to protect itself, by believing that you do not 'need' them to survive in order to justify your rationale.
I hate cigg smoke, but that doesn't mean I avoid making friends with smokers. Seek to understand the importance of freewill and people's choice - accept the way things worked.
Take care.
