Cyber Relationship... Chances To Work

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So many people get into the so called "Cyber Relationship". Some are serious and some are not. There is a certain point in time where we get hooked talking to someone online, a complete stranger, yet we feel so beautiful, belonged, undestood, accepted, and loved. But whether it is serious or not, somehow, there is an element of attraction surrounding it. But what is really the chance for a net relationship to work out? I have so many friends whom I can relate with when it comes to cyber relationship. I had been a chatroom administrator in one Filipino website and I've seen how people fall in-love and get hurt in the net. Online, those forbidden love becomes acceptable, multi-partnership becomes easily manageable, and even age and gender factors are bypassed. One time, I saw a lady crying in pain in the chatroom expressing her frustrations about the personal meeting with the man whom he had fallen in-loved with so deeply in the net. I asked her "Why are you upset? Isn't it nice to finally spend time with him for real after the long period of waiting?", then she replied, "Why not? The person I had fallen in-loved with online through all these time and the person I've personally met days ago are just so different. He doesn't smells good, he have a disgusting finger movement mannerism, and his feet looks awful!" Well, true indeed. How would we know the complete package without seeing it by our naked eye right next in front of us. Yet, we still get hooked... and fall in-love in the net even prior to seeing the complete package of the person we had fallen in-love with. To be fair, I have few friends too who initially met their spouses through the net. Only that, I guess the ratio of successful cyber relationship to work out for real among so many lovers online is 1 per 100. What do you think? ;)