being accused??
By oinkgiz
@oinkgiz (863)
Singapore
September 24, 2009 10:09am CST
hi guys,
did some one accused u for something that u didnt do?? normally what will u feel if u are being accused?? for me, i will feel so miserable.. especially if the person is so close to me or he's special to me... i hate the feeling of being miserable... if im miserable i cant to anything.. i feel so weak... so sad.... i fell so worthless & useless.. *sigh*
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5 responses
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
25 Sep 09
NObody likes to be accused of anything, even for me ^_^ BUT what to do?? If there's any proof to show that i din do it, it will be good.. HOwever, most of the time, we are being accused just because of what they saw, and that's the best evidence against us.. haha =D
Though i wont feel good, but i will just let time prove eveything and my innocence ^_^ What we see might not always be the true, for there are always 2 sides to a story ^_^
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
12 Nov 09
Exactly. There is always two sides to the story.
Until the whole picture can be seen and understood, it is terrible to accuse people of anything.
Though I am guilty of jumping to a conclusion and accuse people, over the years, I am making conscious efforts not to do it!
It is tough. I know how miserable it can be to be accused. That is why I try not to accuse people as well. 
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
13 Nov 09
IT will be difficult to learn.. hehe ^_^ Because over the years, we have been trained and been hearing about experiences that, seeing is believing.. And thus with that etched in our mind, the very first reaction we get is, believe, and we will believe even more, when gossips starts.. haha =D
@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
well we surely are accused sometimes to some fault we didnt even do. i have been through it alot but i try not to get so much affected by it. it would only end up ruining my mood and would truly make me miserable the whole day through. its hard to be accused of things you did not do. but i would always reason out but still they wont listen to my plea of innocence then that is already their problem to handle not mine. as long as i really didnt do it. then i do not have to get affected by it.
jhelai
@oinkgiz (863)
• Singapore
24 Sep 09
hi jhelai,
thanks for ur response... us thats true if we will be much affected of course we will be miserable but... its difficult to be not so affected when someone accused u of something... *sigh* i hope that i can control myself to be not so affected....
have a nice day
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@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
hello oinkgiz...
oh! i have been thorugh it alot already but i guess maybe now i can quite control on how to deal with it. though someitmes i still cannot forced myself to ignore it because we or i could really be affected by such accusations.
you are welcome dear.
jhelai
@niitesh (1653)
• India
24 Sep 09
if i am wrong i bow my head but if i am not I just fight it out, if haven't done it than i really make it a point to prove that i am right and the accusation are all false.Whoever it might be doesn't matter to me but if i am wrong than I am humble and more than happy to accept my fault.
@climber7565 (2579)
• United States
25 Sep 09
oh no now, you have to believe on yourself and know you are honest. If you did not do what you are being accused of then there is no reason at all to feel that way. Have confidence and stand your ground and for yourself.
