im not too sure

United States
September 25, 2009 10:41am CST
So lately i have been showing signs that im pregnant. we didnt want to tell anyone til we are sure including my mother. she is a constant worry wart. she has to worry about the craziest things. she flat out asked me if i was and i couldnt lie to her. i told her that im not sure. wont find out for another couple of weeks. she freaked out like i am and that there is no way that we can support it. we already have a 2 1/2 y/o. she's freakin out financially. right now, im not worried about it. for one, we are not sure if i am. two, we have gone this far and hopefully if i am then im hoping for a boy since i already have everything for a baby still. i have friends that have boys too so we are constantly changing around clothes. our place is small but people have grown up in worse places just fine. our son is growing up fine now. i just dont know what to do about mom. she is going to constantly worry and not sleep at night. i wish there was a way to stop worrying about us. it drives me nuts!!!
1 response
@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
25 Sep 09
Hi erbear Coming from a mom I will tell you want might be going on with your mom. She is worried that you a an individual cant handle another little one. As harsh as this may soung you need to get across to her that you are okay with the fact and you will be fine. Tell her to just be a caring mother and try not to worry. Let her know that if there is a problem she will be the first to know. When she brings it up tell her that you cant talk about it until you know for sure. Then at that time I would tell her that are excited and you know that things will work out for the best. Sometime us moms need to reminded that you kids are not kids any more..LOL
• United States
25 Sep 09
thanks for the advice. i give her a lot of slack b/c im her baby. it builds up but im afraid to tell her how i feel b/c she takes it way to personal.
• United States
25 Sep 09
yes I know what your saying. I was the baby of the family too. I didn't mean for you to be harsh just be strong. She has to be told from you that you will be okay. No one else can tell her that and she believe it until she hears it from you. I really do understand. I have two adult sons. I have been there too..Good luck again..