what if your livein partner got pregnant another girl?
By christian1
@christian1 (134)
Greece
September 26, 2009 5:36pm CST
its a mind blasting to hear specially if youre on the shoes of this girl who has livein partner and got pregnant another girl..when he confronted the man the man says he just only had the other girl as past time.if youre on the shoes of this girl, may i know what is the best thing to do?reply your best please.
5 responses
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
26 Sep 09
Okay, hopefully I have this straight...There is a girl, and she has a partner. Unfortunately, her partner got another girl pregnant while still in a relationship with this girl. First, the girl whom he lives with should kick him out! Hopefully, she will be able to move on with her life. Secondly, the man should ask himself "Do I love the woman I got pregnant and does she love me?" They love each other, they should get married and raise the child together. He definitely should help take care of the child irregardless of the woman's feelings towards him. I do hope that all three involved in this situation will end up very happy!
@christian1 (134)
• Greece
27 Sep 09
they are not married but this man like to stay with this girl.the man refuse to accept that he is the father inspite the fact that the girl who is pregnant claiming that he.t5he man only admit that he had an intimate relationship with this girl for only short span of time.the girl who is pregnant also refuse to ask any support from the man.the girl who is living with this man wanted to go and moveon but this man doesnt let her and hit before the girl can get out from him.
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
27 Sep 09
Even so, he should step up to the plate and offer support for the child or request that a DNA test be done. Also, the fact that he was sleeping with another woman, while he was living with someone else doesn't help build a healthy relationship and obviously there is something wrong if he has to find comfort with another woman.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
27 Sep 09
If the boyfriend has an affair that was disrespectful to his partner. She would have been upset that he has cheated on her and got the other lady pregnant. She should split up with her partner and if it is her house boot him out. If it is his house she should split up with him and move out. The man should be a loving and supportive father to his child.
@christian1 (134)
• Greece
27 Sep 09
the man wants to have a child to someone he love one but the question that is bothering is that why hes staying with this girl while he has another girl.and the livein partner everytime wants to get away from him but shes afraid of this man.
@taztheone (1721)
• India
27 Sep 09
I would say that he is a real guy & support him in his future endeavors.
@christian1 (134)
• Greece
27 Sep 09
how couldyou say that he is a real man he cant even stand out from the result of his acts?
@alatecablebill (519)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
break up with the guy. he cheated on the girl. he just proved that he could not be trusted and he could not commit to the relationship. for a relationship to last and be real, commitment, love, and respecting one another are just a few of the factors that can make it work. getting another girl pregnant is a stupid thing to do. it just shows how big a jerk he is.
@trilliansramblings (160)
• United States
2 Oct 09
From your responses to the other posts I can see that this man not only got another woman pregnant, but he is also physically abusive. She needs to get away from this sad excuse for a man as soon as possible. She should leave while he is away (at work or something) and spend some time at her parents' house or at a friend's house until she can move into a place of her own. If he finds her, then she should get a restraining order. The next time he hits her she should call the police.
