So how did it go you ask?
By SomeCowgirl
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
United States
September 27, 2009 4:24pm CST
Well now I can post in this category as a married woman. Yesterday my husband and I were married, and I think it went very well despite us having a camera possibly stolen. We can't find it anywhere! Also, we were hoping our families wouldn't segregate but they did! Not many of my family talked to his family, and I feel a little upset about that, but I'm not too worried about it.
In any case, My husband and I were nervous, but I think he more than I. I was surprisingly less nervous then I thought, but upon walking in and noticing that sitting down, there didn't seem to be that many people... It was nice. My husband and I, the pastor, and the camera person were the only ones on stage.
I overspoke the pastor once, no one noticed, or so they say. We didn't get some pictures we wanted too, I was talking to everyone, but not enough of my mom and granny... and it was just a bit confusing... My nephew was a picky eater and no one warned us HOW PICKY! I knew he was, but wow! He's worse then my husband, and ME combined! lol!
Well How are you all?
I just thought I'd come on and tell you all
how the day went. My husband is at work now.
I had to edit this because I kept typing "fiance" I even said it
a few times at the reception and my husband's cousin corrected me! lol!
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10 responses
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
30 Sep 09
Congratulations my friend on your Marriage, and hope you will always enjoy the many years of Love and happiness that marriage is supposed to bring. This is a New beginning and New start for the 2 of you, and one that will definately take some getting used too, but don't worry if you remember to talk about everything and learn to work things out from the start everything will be OK, and it gets better with age.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
30 Sep 09
We are learning to talk everything out and to just take things with stride. We're both worriers. I'm also the type that likes to research things such as cars, or houses far before I know we have the money, that stresses him out... so I have to learn to balance it or keep it to myself! lol! I appreciate your response. I hope your doing well. Have a wonderful day.
@schentil (98)
• India
28 Sep 09
hi, getting married is an wonderful experience that everyone has in their lifetime. Marriages generally would look like perfect for those who looks from outside but there is a lot of problem the people who arranges marriage have to face in which bride and bridegroom experience very funny and different things all through the function. Your experience made me really laugh. Good luck.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
28 Sep 09
I am glad that you got a kick out of it. We had a very fun time ourselves and though we had a few things go a bit different then we planed, nothing could be considered a disaster with the actual ceremony. I appreciate your response and hope you are having a wonderful time mylotting!
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
7 Oct 09
hi somecowgirl well congratulations you are now a married'woman and it sounds like your wedding went quite well. I just
remembered now that on my first day back to work after we'
had just been married, I looked at the schedule for our work'week and was frantic, my maiden name was not there, and i blurted out why am I not on the schedule for this coming week. Marie my friend laughed and said you are now Mrs. Hatley look your name is there right there. they all had a good laugh even me, yes I was on the schedule I was no longer Patsie Clark but Patsie Hatley. he he he he he he
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
7 Oct 09
Oh I know I would definitely be frantic myself if that had happened! Sounds like your bosses were swift with putting your new name down on the schedule though, which is good! My Wedding did go quite well. It's funny though, I had dreams before the wedding, and now after, last night I dreamt something funny. I dreamt I married my husband twice, but the second time (in the dream, days apart) I was more nervous, and didn't want to go up there in front of a lot of people... I think I was getting married at an elementary school!
Have a great day Hatley.
@hellcowboy (7374)
• United States
10 Oct 09
This is a great discussion,and I bet it felt good to finally post as a married woman,and I remember we were nervous,and we hoped our families would not segregate but of course they did,and they did not talk to the opposite side,and there was the fact a camera went missing,and we still do not know who stole it,and I know we were both nervous,I was more nervous then you were,and it helped that not a lot of people were there,and the pastor helped us with what we were supposed to say,and Tate who did the video did a really awesome job,we did not get some of the pictures we wanted,and your nephew was extremely picky,and we tried to talk to everyone who was there,but it went great and it was the happiest day of my life,and I remember my mother almost started to cry,I love you with all my heart and soul,have a great day,good luck with all your mylotting goals,and Happy Posting.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
10 Oct 09
It was the happiest day of my life as well. I know that when we were up there and our 2nd cousin cried (she's only a baby after all)... It made me smile. I know your mom also looked over at my mom to see if she was crying but I think your mom said she couldn't tell if she was or not. We think your aunt was crying though... lol. Wedding's are a beautiful thing, lol, but you didn't see us crying, right? lol... But I know that people cry because of how beautiful everything is, and especially mothers... "oh no, I'm losing my baby" lol...
I love you.
@hellcowboy (7374)
• United States
10 Oct 09
I am glad it was the best day of your life as well,and you told me about our baby cousin crying even though I did not hear her,something tells me your mom was not crying and I know we think that aunt Becky was crying and she probably was,and I know weddings are happy occasions and that is why people cry,and I am glad that we were not crying,I love you with all my heart and soul,have a great day,good luck with all your mylotting goals, and Happy Posting Baby.
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
27 Sep 09
Congrats! It sounds like everything went pretty well...except for the camera problem and I do hope that it's just been misplaced and not stolen. No wedding is 100% perfect, at least not from the perspective of the bride and groom. My husband and I went to a nephew's wedding a few months ago. It was lovely and so was the receptions. Everything went off without a hitch as far as we could tell...but to hear the bride and groom talk about it, it was one step away from a complete flop.
You'll get used to saying "husband"...it took me awhile, too. 
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
27 Sep 09
Yesterday I was even thinking "okay people on mylot have said that no wedding will be perfect!" So I think that helped a lot! There were a few things that didn't go as smoothly but what matters is that we were happy and are happy! Lol, last night I said "husband" several times to him so that I could start getting used to it. My cousin kept calling me by my new last name last night... My fi... see? lol... My husband was impressed.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
7 Oct 09
I'm getting used to it! At First, and even now I'll catch myself saying or thinking "fiance"...
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
28 Sep 09
Lol! I wasn't even the one in control! My husband, mother in law and I did the planning, and his mom knew more about what to expect etc then we did! But yes, it went very well, and I am pleased though a few bumps did happen!
@meapas (2436)
• India
28 Sep 09
Congratulations! This is the first promotion of your life! There can't be a better moment of happiness than this for us. Just enjoy your new status as if there is no tomorrow. Our whole hearted blessings for a very very very happy married life.
Hope to congratulate you again for a second promotion within a year or two. Wish you all the best once again. May God bless you and your husband and all your loved ones.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
28 Sep 09
Meapas, Thank you so much for your words. I greatly appreciate them. We are very blessed to have each other, and yes in a few years we hope to be prepared for that "promotion" though we will take that "promotion" whenever god decides it best for us!
@submerryn (1304)
• Malaysia
28 Sep 09
Somecowgirl,
First of all, Congratulations! I tell you, it wont be meaningful if not for the few hickups here and there. No wedding can go through 100% as planned or rehearsed. This few 'glitches' are what made it so meaningful. And you, still referring him as you 'fiance' is just too cute. You'll have to adapt to it. I still havent get used to calling my in-laws "mom" or "Dad".. lol..
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
2 Oct 09
I have lived with my in laws for two years now and haven't called them mom or dad yet either. I've recently gotten into calling them by their first name... I'm just kind of weird on this aspect. I can call other people's mom's mom but not my own mom in law? I don't know what I'm thinking! lol! Oh yes, and my husband! I am getting better at calling him husband. Few glitches, I've forgot 'im!
@hexeduser22 (7253)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
Congratulations! Your starting a new chapter of your life. I think your wedding went fine except for the family thing but I guess that's just normal and they will soon get to know each other very well. This discussion made me smile and hope that my wedding would be fine and happy too:)
