Do you feel like this?

United States
September 27, 2009 11:08pm CST
How is it possible to love someone so much but hate what they do? I love who he is with all my heart but I cant take how rough he is with me. He says he just joking around and I believe him but that doesn't mean it doesn't hurt. I don't know how to make it clear that wrestling with a 9 month pregnant woman is not going to work. I guess I'm asking if anyone else feels like they aren't seen by someone they love so much. And the kicker for me is that I know he loves me just as much!
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4 responses
• Philippines
30 Sep 09
ohh my goodness... wake up!!! if he loves you he wont hurt you.... have a litle respect with yourself..dont let anyone hurt you even your love one..
• United States
29 Sep 09
My opinion is he should not be hitting on you at all. I understand you love him but i would suggest him to get counseling for that problem. If he would hit you well you are pregnant he is not being a real man. Real men do not hit there Lady. So sorry for this but it is my opinion so you can take this with a grain of salt or you can think about this and help him get help.
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
28 Sep 09
Well this is a guess but it sounds like your lover has not gotten out of his adolescence phase yet. What you say he is doing with you is what teenage guys do with each other. Of course they take it easy because the other guy could beat them up if they aren't. Regardless of your condition, but even more important because of it, he should not be hurting you and then ignoring it when you tell him he is. If he really did care for you as you say he would never ever want to hurt you in any way. If you really are pregnant then you must know this can cause you to loose that child. That alone would be absolutely unforgivable. I would have to ask you how can you love someone that has such little regard for you. His being sorry but then hurting you again should tell you all you need to know. Make it very clear to him that you will not allow this any more. If following that he does it again it is time for you to run, not walk, away from him. If you don't you may be very sorry. If he does this now what will he do if you were married. Not a pretty picture.
@med889 (5941)
28 Sep 09
It is normal to love someone personality and yet hate him for what he is doing to you. However it is said that we should love a person as he is without changing him but will this sentence still be valid if the person has a very bad character and you want to change it to a much better one! Respect in a relationship is very important for me and when respect is not present then love also will extinguish by itself.