Rich Guy or Poor guy?

@vopols (204)
Philippines
September 29, 2009 2:49am CST
Women nowadays are practical they prefer a guy who can gave them everything when it comes to money but there are also women who are already have everything but yet they feel something that is missing.Can a money of a rich guy can make you happy? or is it the presence of the poor guy which can give you happiness.Whats your choice?
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@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
29 Sep 09
honeslty... i find this question one of the toughest to answer... I would definitely want to marry a rich guy... oh god i have been working my b*tt for years and years and I am so beat up and tired every single day...yet I have not saved enough... how nice would it be to have someone who can just give me what i want without me having to break my bones from working too hard for it. ...yet i am scared about being miserable and lonely one day... I know women can learn to love a man especially if he is so nice to her and would treat her very special... what if i won't learn to love him??? I would try...but what if it isnt there at all????
• South Africa
29 Sep 09
Your Kinda rite. Theres Two sides to this.Firstly I am attracted to succesfull men,men who go for what they want,focused,driven,passionate,and Honest men.Rich or poor is NOT a factor.If he is ALL those things above,chances are his already rich which is good for me OR his working his way up the ladder-which I dont mind aswell.He must just be a man with BIG Dreams and Focus. weather his rich OR not it doesnt matter.
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• Philippines
29 Sep 09
Hi beautifull...im turning 31 next month... i feel like i dont have much time anymore to wait for a man to be successful... i have wasted a lot of my time already trying to get rich.... if i find a rich guy wanting to marry me..i might go for it... I would have to consider many things first...but when i am sure about it...i would go for it......
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
30 Sep 09
Rich guy over Poor Guy? Depends on if you're in love with the Poor Guy! How can one be truly happy if they are in love with the poor guy but then they marry the rich guy for his money? I know I wouldn't be happy if I married someone just for their money, their has to be love. I could be happy with the poor guy if I loved him, because we would have so much to share together including quality time with our family. Now, if I was with the rich guy and we both loved each other, we would have something else to build on, but we would know that money doesn't dictate who we are. Also, there has to be a physical attraction, for me anyways, and that's just for starters. I would want a guy that knows how to make me laugh, because as always laughter is the best medicine. I would want someone that is caring, kind and considerate and knows how to enjoy life. Yeah, I want someone who loves to make me laugh and I want to be able to make them smile in return.
@vopols (204)
• Philippines
30 Sep 09
Thank you for that respond buggles64
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
29 Sep 09
I'm sorry but I get so sick of ppl (usually guys) having such a negative attitude towards women today....now maybe its my age group but then again I dont think so since I have neices and friends with daughters who are in their teens and 20s..but myself and pretty much all of my friends, female family members and neices etc etc ARENT out for money..Granted we are all (except a couple) strong, independant, NON materialistic women...I honestly think that the money wanters are few in comparison really...yet ppl (again, usually guys) have this belief that the majority are out for the rich guys..why is that??
@coolcat123 (4387)
• India
29 Sep 09
I am a very simple girl and want to live a happy life, if in future I have had money but no happiness than I have never prefer that life to live. I can live even in a hut with my beloved but I want is happiness and thats it for me.I want to laugh and enjoy life,if less money , no problem but I want my life partner to love me and with a true heart.
@savak03 (6684)
• United States
29 Sep 09
Well, I am way past the time when I am looking for a guy at all, either rich or poor. Actually I don't think anyone could fill the shoes of my late husband. But to try to answer your question I will offer these points. If a man is to poor and has no ambition to better himself no matter how good he looks or how good he makes you feel the relationship will be strained down the way. When it is time to pay the bills and your man will not work you will get disgusted. On the other hand marrying for money is no guarantee of happiness either. If a man is rich he may be used to getting his own way in everything. He may feel that the rules of marriage don't apply to him since he can buy anything he wants. You might find yourself lonely in a big house. So before deciding to get married a couple should get to know each other and talk to one another. They need to see if they have things in common and similar goals for life. They need to love one another and more importantly respect and like each other.
@Archie0 (5636)
29 Sep 09
For me, rich or poor doesn't matter as much as how well or poorly he treats me. To be honest, I don't think I'd have to ask about his money position since it would become obvious if I'm paying attention. You can't stop people from "changing" - it may be that you've changed & just hadn't realized it. Just keep looking - the right one will come along. Sometimes it just takes a while to find them! : )