No friends

@vzihan (145)
China
September 29, 2009 5:35pm CST
Have you ever had the experience that having no friends?Now I strongly feel lonely and I cannot find a friend sharing with me.When I am upset,what I can do is just bearing by myself.Is anyone similar with me?How do you think about friendship?Do you believe friendship is exiting all the time of our life process?
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@kykidd (6818)
• United States
29 Sep 09
I don't have many friends that live nearby, but do usually talk to at least one person on the phone once a week. I was living in a different state for a while, and things were a lot worse. I had moved south for the winter, and didn't get to know anyone living there until about the last couple of months. Even worse, my boyfriend who had originally went with me, ended up moving back up north to take care of some things. If he would have been with me, I think that I would have met more people, because he talks to most everyone. I am not sure why we have to live through situations like this, but I do know that it probably made me a stronger person. Keep in mind, you always have friends here on myLot. No matter how down and out you feel, you will never be alone. You can talk to us anytime!
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@vzihan (145)
• China
29 Sep 09
Take it easy,my mylot friends.Thank you for your sweet words!I will be strong and grow up from this experience. I wish you also will be happy in future. Good luck!
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29 Sep 09
Aw hun, You can make lots of friends here, who you can talk to, you do not have to be alone, and feel lonely. I will send you friend request now, and if you want to talk, fire away, i am a good listener, and will be your friend :) x
@vzihan (145)
• China
29 Sep 09
Haha,you are so cool and different,my friend.Thank you!
30 Sep 09
LOL, cool? errrr, different, oh yup! LOL, No, just friendly, nice to meet you :)
• India
30 Sep 09
We are all there for you friend . Just keep MyLotting and you will find there is no dearth of friends around you. Just pour out your sole into your responses and discussions and you will find so many sympathizers that you will just love it here.You have found the right place mate.
• India
30 Sep 09
I used to feel like that and this is how I got out of it. I used to spend more time with my parents or I would keep myself very busy. This helped me a lot because the only time I used to feel lonely was when I am free and have nothing to do. That is when all those thoughts came into my mind. So i used to keep myself busy and the next thing is internet. I found many friends here in mylot as well. Internet is a place where if you respond nicely you can have many friends. Ofcourse they may not be life long friends but you will not feel lonely here. Because people respond to you. Thats my experience you can find a better way out of it. All the best
@Hatley (164237)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Sep 09
vzihan hi hatley here if you want friends you must reach out to others as you would be surprised how many others are just like you,in need of friends, be the first one to speak, ' ask how they are, or even talk about the weather,anything to break the ice and get the conversation started.before you know it you will have some friends.