the right choice

September 30, 2009 9:27am CST
but the wrong result? Do you get this? Does this happen to you? You make what you think is a well thought out informed, considered decision, where only the best possible outcome is in your mind. But somehow, it gets messed up, you have made the right choice, but you end up with the complete opposite result that you were hoping for! you made a good decision, but got a bad outcome. I can't be the only one that this happens to? Does this happen to you? When was the last time it happened to you?
3 responses
• China
30 Sep 09
Hi, 3cardmonte, I don't think there is abosolutely right choice. Someone is better than the other one bsaed on what you care about and think about. It depends on personality. For one thing, different people have various opinions and different choice. They all have their own reasons. Therefore, I think if only you have your own reason, that is your right choice. Good Luck.
30 Sep 09
well said, only our choices should matter.
@shally_hh (418)
• China
30 Sep 09
yeah,it often happens, although we made a correct choice,we get an unsatisfactory even opposite result,it is not under our control at all.but anyway,in my opinion,despite the end,it is the most important to insist on our right choice.
30 Sep 09
It is, your right, despite the outcome,we need to do the right thing.
@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
30 Sep 09
Happens to me more often than I'd like. Wouldn't it be nice to have the advantage of hindsight when making these choices? I'm a notorious matchmaker amongst my friends. Many have turned out really well, others turn our really well until it turns to 'something that you'd normally flush'. For the latter I try to keep quiet, but eventually in the ensuing arguments the combatants get around to cursing how they got together to begin with.... I've lost a few friends that way.
30 Sep 09
Not really fair to blame you though!