Is stupidity and idiocracy curable?

United States
September 30, 2009 10:38am CST
So a couple of days ago I made the STUPIDEST mistake ever. I don't want to say what it was because I am absolutely mortified. And while things may still work out, odds are not. And odds are sometime in teh future it is going to resurface and depending on when and where I KNOW it will cause alot of issues. The sad thing is, it was completely innocent. I don't feel 'morally wrong' or anything but I just didn't think things through. Which is something I severely lack. And if this ever comes back to me then I KNOW it won't be veiwed as innocent and will probably be the most mortifying day to come. Does stupidity have a cure? I just feel like a complete idiot! I think my issue is I am too trusting. Even time after time when I learn that honesty in this world is fading quickly, I still think that whatever I am interested in has to be conducted by people as honest as me. But who thinks like that anymore? I swear I open myself up to be taken advantage of over and over again and I dont even realize it until AFTER its done. Anyways now I am freaking out because this whole thing was a terrible idea and it is going to eat away at me. I am so scared it is going to surface and everyone I care about is going to see this 'other light of me' that doesnt exist! But they won't understand. How to I stop myself from being so stupid?
1 response
• United States
30 Sep 09
Not cureable, but controllable in my opinion. The only thing you can really do is make more of an effort to think things through next time. You can't be too trusting of people either. As much as we like to think we live in a world of kind hearted people (for the most part we do) the reality is there are people out there who would sell the own children to get what they want. It's hard to say anything more than that without knowing more about your situation, but what I said above should help out in making better decisions. Just got to remember to take a step back before agreeing to anything.