ur bf is married ??
By oinkgiz
@oinkgiz (863)
Singapore
October 1, 2009 11:13am CST
hi guys,
im just curious, if u found out that ur boy friend is already been married & have children but he never told u about it... what will u do?? what will u react?? will u stay in the relationship or u'll break up with him??
thanks in advance for ur response...have a nice day and happy mylotting... ^_^
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5 responses
I will exit from his life at once and never to see him again. OMG@olepmis (840)
• Philippines
3 Oct 09
Yes, you r right it is so easy to say but very hard to do because you love that guy. Upon knowing that he has fooled and lied to you is enough ground to forget him and be angry with him. He does not love you nor care for you. If he does love and care for you, he will be honest and respect you since the beginning of your acquaintanceship or relationship. 
@climber7565 (2566)
• United States
4 Oct 09
if someone lies to you? you want to fool yourself in to loving that person? yea good for you, so you like to taken advantage then? There is nothing anyone can do to help then, if you don't care for yourself enough to know its wrong and you are being taken advantage and used. So are asking for it, then enjoy it.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
4 Oct 09
oh no! its a nightmare! hehe or maybe i will curse him for that!
well, upon knowing that i will definitely step out of his life! specially when he is still living together with his wife & children...
i don't want to ruin anybody's marriage and i know how hurtful it will be for his family...yes i will be hurt but the one who will be hurt more is his wife & his children...so i will just go and leave them alone and find a better more deserving man for me...
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
2 Oct 09
I will definitely be breaking up with him, for he's not honest at all. IF there's not honesty in the relationship, what's the point in being together?? He might just be making use of one, to get that he wants, or he just wanna have some fun outside..
If he really loves them, he would have told them the truth, and be divorcing his wife.. However, it might be a bad thing for them, as others might see them being the 3rd party, when they might not really be so 
@corrycrystal (1775)
• Malaysia
4 Oct 09
Hi, Oinkgiz! It will break my heart if I found out that the man I love has cheated on me all this while. Why would I stay in the relationship? What will I gain from the relationship?? He is married and has no intention of leaving his wife, and he already has children *how many* 
As a woman, please leave the boyfriend even though it's so hard, but it might be a little easier if we try to put ourselves in the wife's shoes if she ever finds out about the affair.
As a woman, please leave the boyfriend even though it's so hard, but it might be a little easier if we try to put ourselves in the wife's shoes if she ever finds out about the affair. @climber7565 (2566)
• United States
4 Oct 09
hm if my girl friend tells me she is married and has a child while she told me she was single and no children? I drop her in a heart beat. Wait I did that lately lol, some laying looser thought she could fool me. I am so sick of lying trash like that. Why would you even consider staying with someone who lies like that?
