If you lose your parents, how you deal with this? your parents live?

I am sorry to heard this ,your situation is really bad,but I hope you can stand up.if you stand ,you will be stronger than before.your father do not want to see you disheartened.there is a gaint stand behind you,he is looking ai you,so you can not fall,your supporter is yourself.do you know Lincoln ?his experience tell us never give up.

Hi Icesmile, I feel so sad for you....My parents are both in their 80s, and thank God, they are both healthy. I don't want to think about losing them - I would miss them terribly, can't imagine a life without them. So I pray that you will have divine strength to carry on; I'm sure your mother would want to live on happily. Take care and God bless you.

My parents are still living and thankfully in pretty good health. I would be devastated if my parents were not alive. I know that eventually, some day, far, far down the line, they will pass, but not any time soon....I hope. I guess when the time comes, I will face it and be okay, as they taught me how to take care of myself quite well, but I do not look forward to that day.

First of all, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I too lost my father many years ago to a heart attack. It was nearly devastating for our family but we were able to get through it because we still had each other: my mom, my brother and my sister. Now, I know that one day I will lose my mother and it is something that I don't even like to think about because not only is she the only surviving parent that I have, she is also my best friend. I beleive that one of the best ways to get through this difficult time in your life is to have some strong shoulders to lean on. You will find that your friends may be there for you even more and even the rest of your family. I know it is difficult but I also believe that you will get through it because you said that you are a strong person. Yes, life will be empty and you will never fully recover from your loss, but in the end you will come out a stronger, though different person.

both my parents are still alive. thinking about losing them is like a bird who lose two arms. my parents are my life. i can't imagine what would life be without them.

hey icesmile, hang in there. Don't think about the 'how' part. You don't plan ahead on how you deal with losing your parents. Plans like that fail. You simply move on. There will be days, maybe months, maybe years, that it will be really hard on you, but life will go on. Don't worry about it. Don't think about it. Just take the time to enjoy the company of your mother. She's still there with you, so love her, honor her, and maybe moving on will be easier for you. Prayer helps, too. If you're not a religious person, just talk to God. It helps.

my father die when i was 9 years old. he was shot by robbers, he manage to protect my mom but we ended up lossing him instead, i could never accpet that fact that those robbers got away, but his lost was not gone waisted as it turned me into a stronger person. I have my mom left, but to my full honesty i would not know too how i can survive if i will lose my mom. i know she would not want me to be depressed but i might not be able to promise her that. all i do now is pray for her. You need to hold on no matter what. pray hard. and if time do come that she needs to go back to heaven, you have the right to mourn but then you need to show her that you will be strong and stay strong for her, so that her spirit will have peace knowing she had raised you so well and you will make it through. I will pray for your mom to give her more time here to be with you.

I still have both of my parents, thank God. But you know what? I am so scared to lose any member of my family. I am not ready for that. But that's life. Everyone will go in their own time. Our lives are just borrowed. I will pray for you Ice. May God bless you.

Dear friend It is listen too bad. But belief me I am dishearten what you say above all god is great. You cannot deny his will and wish. I pray god to bless you and bless your parent soul. It is universal truth you have to admit it............ cheer up.