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By tinsky
@tinsky (163)
Philippines
October 4, 2009 9:35am CST
Find a guy who calls u beautiful instead of hot., who calls u back when u hang up on him.,who will lie under the stars and listen to ur heartbeat., or will stay awake just to watch u sleep.Wait for the boy hu kisses ur forehead, who wants to show u off to the world when u are in sweats, who holds ur hand in front of his friends, who thinks ur just as pretty without makeup on...One who is constantly reminding u of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU...Especially, the one hu turns to his friends and say, that's HER...
how sweet is that right?...
4 responses
@good2go2001 (915)
• United States
4 Oct 09
I have found that exact guy and we have had an on going relationship for over a year. I never thought it would be possible to find a guy that would treat me so well. The problem is that we both are in other relationships and we are dealing with a distance problem. Trust me ive thought about running from the relationship just because this sort of treatment to me is not normal and it scares me. But it hurts me to know that the person ive ment to be with is out there and hes willing to wait till we are both not in other relationships and to be just what we can be considering the situations we are in. I think people jump into marriage way to young and then its sad when they find their true soulmate later in life and then have to feel they morally need to stick to their vows to stay with their spouse. Now im not saying i believe in divorce , or i would have already been divorced. But how long do you stay with your spouse when you know your soulmate is out there? When your spouse treats you with disrespect? When youve fallin out of love over 10 years ago and no hope of getting that back? So for now my mister right is out there waiting and im here in this marriage going threw the motions just because it seems like its the moral thing to do.
@classicelfryoko (109)
• United States
5 Oct 09
My friend is in the same situation as you. I'm just going to tell you what I told her and that is to break it off before it gets even uglier. When you have that gut feeling that you know something is likely not going to change you need to listen to yourself. My friend apparently didn't want to divorce her husband even though he was treating her wrong and accusing her of things she didn't do. Finally he divorced her, after screwing with her for an entire year. It's ridiculous, and I don't feel bad for her at all because I told her to get out, but she was naive and stayed with him because she thought it was going to get better. They were married for 8 years. I don't mean to lash out at you or anything. But I hope for the best. :) I hope that you get to see your soulmate one of these days. Don't miss out on your chance if you can help it. Cause I know I regret letting go of someone I probably could have had something with.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
4 Oct 09
Hi dear!
I think if a young woman finds this kind of guy, who is caring and willing to do anything for her, I think that young woman will a kind of great satisfaction and would love to be pampered by her caring lover.
@my_name_is_coco (4334)
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
I am a practical person.I think a guy who will find me beautiful is not,and never will be,born.I am not a cynic;I just look into reality.in reality,these guys who will do these things are either married or involved with a woman deemed "pretty" by the society.these are women who look like supermodels.I don't want to live in a fairy tale world.
