How do guys think??

@bezini (44)
United States
October 4, 2009 12:04pm CST
My ex broke up with me because he wasn't ready to take our relationship to the next level, which i can't really blame him for. But then he asked me if i wanted to be f**k buddies. which i don't understand at all. Why on earth would he want that, if that was the reason he broke up with me in the first place?? How do guys' brains WORK?!
5 responses
@anning (88)
• China
17 Oct 09
the boy just do not want to marry with you.what he want is play with you.he see you as a girl friend not as a wife.
• United States
7 Oct 09
When it comes to being with some one living, loving,thick&thin guys and women are the same they don't think different! You just have to find the ones that think like you and want the same thing. There brain ether wants you which make their brain just fine or in your case his brain doesn't work at all!!! Its not how it works but if it works... Good luck with it- But i think you know luck has nothing to do with it Brian
@StarBright (2798)
• United States
4 Oct 09
I hope you told him you were not ready to take your relationship DOWN to that level. The nerve!!! You are soooo much better than that!!!! The problem is his brain is not working. At least not the one in his head.
@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
6 Oct 09
i think move on. he is just noncommittal or not ready for a serious relationship with one person. but rather he prefers to mess around with many women. he wants to have more fun before he settles down. fu** buddies is for trashy women. the hoochies. i know a woman like that. she is not serious with any guy, but she prefers to have fun as fu** buddies with different men. she is sick and gross.
@wmraul (2552)
• Bucharest, Romania
4 Oct 09
It depends on what do you consider to be "next level" and what he think it is .. Anyway, 16 is not quite an age to make him be happy he have a "F-buddy" .. However, I think he don't consider a marriage or any sort of clear commitment, while being "lovers" is not something permanent - yet MAY become permanent, once both agree you want to be together and pappers (legal marriage I mean) is not what keeps ytou together. I don't know exact situation but if your age from your profile is real, I would try some patience .. rare is better at this age ..