take revenge? pray for these person? accept the apology?

@Craicha (801)
October 6, 2009 10:04am CST
if someone hurts you especially someone that you trust most...will you take revenge to hurts these person back...or pray for him coz maybe he doesnt know what his doing why he hurts you....or just accept his aplogy as easy as that then forget...!
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5 responses
@coolsudan (313)
• India
12 Oct 09
i will forgive the person.This may sound ridiculous but i have done this whole my life . I trust on anyone without any reason even after getting hurt many times i havent cursed anyone. I learn from the experiences thats it. I beleive that if everybody starts taking revenge then world wont survive. these wasr are a result of that. again we cant help what we get in our destiny. our best pals may ditch us we can get hurt by anybody, only thing that we can do is try not to hurt others. Getting hurt is no sin but hurting someone is a sin. many dont agree with this but thast the only way we could be a superior being
@Sherka (82)
• Jamaica
12 Oct 09
I believe that i might forgive them after a long time of being angry but the things is, though i have forgiven, i dont think i'll ever forget the hurt/betrayal.
• India
12 Oct 09
well i wont either sherka. nobody can forget if they are hurt by there own people. only thing we can do is learn from it and try not to fall in such a situation again.but again i wont take a revenge.
• Canada
10 Oct 09
Depending on the degree of hurt, sometimes I entertain revenge fantasies toward the person responsible. I am hopelessly human, sometimes being too angry to pray for someone who has wronged me. My preference would be to always pray for those who hurt me and to have the strength to forgo anger for faith. While there are sincere apologies, to just accept an apology can sometimes enable a person to hurt you again or is not enough to lend validation to the hurt. Forgive and forget is a nice concept and an ideal to strive for. In these ways I am still a work in progress.
@zedlav23 (458)
• Philippines
6 Oct 09
Among the three choices, taking revenge should be out of the picture. I know it may sound saint-like to say it, but the best way to mend a hurt feeling to pray for the person who've wronged or hurt you and forgive if he takes responsibility for doing a wrong. Unfortunately, as Rick Warren's Purpose Driven Life said, many people are actually driven by resentment and anger. But to truly realize your life's worth and purpose, is to live on the present and forget the past.
• Philippines
6 Oct 09
When somebody hurt me I always thought of making revenge but gladly I didn't do it. I always find myself in adoration chapel and praying for that person to realize what he or she did to me. Im widely open to accept the apology but I don't make the first move to reconcile.
@Sissygrl (10914)
• Canada
6 Oct 09
I think that the best thing to do in these cases it to try your best to forgive but never forget.. cause if the same thing happens over and over again, then you know they are not truely sorry, they just dont care.