Saving a Marriage

@amaine (2027)
Philippines
October 7, 2009 4:33am CST
Really, this would be a hard part that some couples have to go through - how can a marriage be really saved. For some, the answer to most of a couple's problems would be a divorce. But are there really ways on how some of these marriages be spared? Based from your experience, can you share some useful tips?
5 responses
• Philippines
7 Oct 09
Well it depends on what kind of problems occured. If it was very tolerable obviously the marriage can be saved for some talks. But if the problems seem to be punishable no matter how you deal with it, it can't be saved. But maybe there's still a chance for the couple to reconcile if both pride will be set outside.
@Fracker (177)
• Pakistan
7 Oct 09
well, to me, if you really looking to save the marriage then it means there is some problem in your relationship... and this is the last stages of your relationship. So you really can't save your marriage while imagining your marriage is going to break tomorrow... Everyone has a problem, and one should understand that no one is perfect. and relationship need an some point of compromise. where other person can't come forward you should same way for him..
@tixepower (1195)
• Sweden
7 Oct 09
THere is no difference in being married and just being together without a paper telling everyone about it. I'm sorry but marry some one is not like it used to today, now people do it for fun thinking that they can be forever with some one just because they marry that person :D
@jugsjugs (12967)
7 Oct 09
If you want a marriage to work,then you both must work hard to keep the marriage going.If there has been one person in the marriage that has lied to their partner then the trust will either never come back or you will always dwell on it.You should never lie or hide the truth about anything and it is all about sharing as in sharing the time as well as the jobs.You should always make time for each other and always be able to talk and find time to listen to each other.
@velentina (891)
• Mauritius
7 Oct 09
I think both parties must have a mutual understanding and accept each others caprices. To save a marriage parents of both parties must talk to their child and try to find a solution to their problem. It also depends on the type of problem. Every couple has got minor problems in their married life this cannot end a lifelong relationship. If a major problem arises their should be the intervention of a third party to make the patch up. Once I left home and went to stay at my parents home for 1 week. Then my elder brother talked to me and told me that my place was in my husband's house and that I should go back to him and forget everything that happened. As it is said that time heal a wound, in one eek my anger was over and iI returned happily to my husband. Good luck