Would You?
By shadow41
@shadow41 (2351)
Philippines
October 7, 2009 12:08pm CST
After you got married. Would you still go out for a date with your partner? Would you still go in a nice hotel and spend a night or two with your love one? I would definitely do that. How about you? What are your common deeds being boyfriend and girlfriend? Would you still do it after your marriage?
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7 responses
@BART78 (2927)
• Canada
8 Oct 09
...certainly..actually we have lot's of plan, one of which is not to have babies though i'm eager to have, so we can enjoy our married life, actually i'm planning to court her again, i love the way she's playing hard to get, i love the challenges....go to hotel? yah!! certainly.. we love going to hotel that has fine service and nice rooms with lost of room features...common deeds??? mmmmmmmmhhhh!! it's personal..sorry but yeah! we definately still do our rituals...i believe doing this rituals to your marriage life kepts the fire burning.......
@shadow41 (2351)
• Philippines
8 Oct 09
Me too. I and my girlfriend agreed that if we got married we won't immediately have a baby. We'll enjoy each others company first. Maybe after 2 or 3 years we can try for a baby. Haha. What I'm referring of the deeds I'm asking is not what you think. I'm talking about your dates or things you enjoy doing outside like eating in a classy restaurant or just eating street foods. Anyway you're right it's still personal and my bad. :) Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
@fitforlife (100)
• United States
7 Oct 09
Definitely. I think this is the one thing that keeps marriage together. In the midst of work schedules, the kids and the busyness, you still need to make time for one another and having date nights usually works to strength your marriage. It keeps the fire sort of speak burning.
@Phaedra_Scythe (3325)
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7 Oct 09
Of course you should keep the romance alive! It should only get better and better with the passing of time and marriage. I hope my partner and I will always strive to romance each other.
@shadow41 (2351)
• Philippines
7 Oct 09
Yes you right but in reality I think it's the opposite that is happening most. Couples lose the heat and romance as time goes by. Most of them don't have the time and effort to spend a little romance with each other. I'll make sure that won't happen to me. :) Thanks for dropping by.
@frankiecesca (2489)
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7 Oct 09
Yes I would - we try and go away for mini weekends away every year - in fact in December we are off to Venice for 2 nights which I really am looking forward to!
@cmnavarro (251)
• Philippines
7 Oct 09
of course... i think that couples should continue doing things like this and maybe try new stuffs/activities together to spice up their life... this might also help prevent separation or the other party from cheating/falling out of love... nice post, by the way... happy myLotting!
@shadow41 (2351)
• Philippines
7 Oct 09
Yes you're right! One of the main reasons why divorce is rampant nowadays is because couples have lost their desires to one another. They find it to someone else and then arise third parties. Keeping the romance alive is a must. I would surely ask my wife to be to try new stuffs soon. LOL. Thanks for the compliment, thanks for the time, and thanks for sharing your thoughts. I'm going to sleep now. Good morning kabayan :) Take care.
@sahilbange87 (52)
• India
7 Oct 09
yes i would surely go out for a date with my partner and why shouldn't i.I am not only my girlfriend's boyfriend but also her best friend,husband and everyone whom she need.so i dont take my life in such a way where i have to think that iam only a boyfriend not a husband so i should not do this or that and i will surely continue all the fun which i enjoy now after my marriage also
@shadow41 (2351)
• Philippines
7 Oct 09
hmmmm a complete partner you are. :) Yes it's good to continue doing what you do before marriage. But sometimes we become so busy running a family and we tend to forget to care about the romance we once had. Thanks for sharing your thought about this :)
@stacysmomstl (397)
• United States
7 Oct 09
Yes I would if we could afford it. Maybe not weekly, but monthly if we could afford it. I think it's important to keep the romance in a relationship. Especially after the kids come. But before too.
