does a marriage can keep love?

@angeliam (206)
China
October 7, 2009 9:43pm CST
people say that marriage is the grave of love.how do you think?
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
8 Oct 09
I believe that a marriage can survive. Love is the strongest bond, and though sadly it can be broken, it doesn't have to be. I think that when a couple goes into marriage they should have an idea of what they're going into. My husband and I just recently got married and we took pre marital counseling as per request of the church we got married in. We don't regret the counseling and are glad to have gone to each session.
@angeliam (206)
• China
8 Oct 09
yes,but it's difficult.we need to manage our marriage.it requires the efferts of two sides.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
8 Oct 09
What is difficult? Marriage in general or the counseling of which I spoke? Yes it does take two to tango, so I agree it's not a one sided thing... No matter what the subject is to do with marriage.
@angeliam (206)
• China
8 Oct 09
i've seen two many unhappy couples around us.all the quarrels,misunderstandings,betrays have scared me.there so many factors to consider before stepping into marriage.don't you think.
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@SACHIN2708 (1634)
• India
18 Nov 09
Yup dear marriage can keep love it is depend on you that how you handel your married life and you for love trust is very important
@larish (2191)
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
I guess, it depends on the person. For me, love can make the marriage work. If you have the same vision with your spouse then chances of making your marriage work is possible. I also believe that love is make stronger if it has respect for each other. Marriage should not be the end of love but should be a beginning to make love stronger. It is another stage to elevate your love on another level ---that includes building your own family. It extending your love to your future kids.
• Malaysia
10 Oct 09
I think that comes from the people who do not see marriage as blessings and never tried to understand marriage in depth. To me, marriage is a beginning. The beginning of the life I share with my hubby and the moment I became a wife to him I am not only thinking for myself, but for two people and if I have children, there are more people to think about. So, a couple must not depend on the marriage to work for itself. They themselves must work together to nurture it everyday. If some people think that once they get married, their love will change, they will plant that idea in their head and once they really enter the marriage life, if the relationship does not work, they will see it as normal and nothing new. If they are thinking like this, they shouldn't get married at the first place. That's what I think in general.
@SACHIN2708 (1634)
• India
18 Nov 09
Absolutely marriage keep love because it is depend on you that how you handel your marriage .See if trust is there, care is there, friendship is there, comunication is there and if they understand their feelings and problem so love will be there .Important things is every partner should get to know that what is likes and dislikes of my partner
13 Oct 09
A marriage is just a way of celebrating your love. It should not determine what your relationship is like.
• Philippines
8 Oct 09
There are millions of happy couples who have not resorted to changing partners. for them marriage is not the grave of love.