Woman and Love
By bhanusb
@bhanusb (5709)
India
October 8, 2009 10:07am CST
I know a woman and she also my friend. She had love affairs with a man. But in any way she could not marry her. Later she married another man. Recently her old lover died.I gave her this sad message. But surprisingly I found no reaction from her. I thought she would morn for her old lover.But she received this sad news in a easy mood. Are the women forget their old lovers!
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5 responses
@skysuccess (8857)
• Singapore
8 Oct 09
bhanusb,
First of all, I think you need to realize that her previous love relationship is history and it had ended the day she married to a man whom she regards as the love of her life. In another words, she has moved on from her past.
So, why is it that you are seeking for her to be mournful? Does she really need to be mourning in the first place?
I feel that is really her prerogative as to what she wants to feel with such a news and forget their past relationships and lovers. It is her life after all and she has the right to decide.
This is just life.
@skysuccess (8857)
• Singapore
9 Oct 09
bhanusb,
Well, whether a person's past would be a past, to let go or not or do with one's feeling is really a matter of choice.
Some people can be just so decisive with what they want to do with their life's options and decide for themselves. So, it is really up to your friend here and it is just right for you to support her decisions.
@skysuccess (8857)
• Singapore
10 Oct 09
bhanusb,
You are welcome.
I suppose there are times where logic will precede emotions and this is just the time to do so. Everyone have their ways on how to move on and go about with their lives. It is just human and individual.
Have a nice day.
@GADHISUNU (2162)
• India
9 Oct 09
Love needs nurturing and reinforcement to stay on. Take even a marriage for example. Don't you see people therapists marriage cousellors advising that one should keep constantly working working at marriage to keep alive and let the zing be there in it. If this is the fate of marriage, what to speak of love, that too one that was once upon a time kind. It is not surprising that it would not stay. If some love stories portry undying love...well thay are just that ..stories!!!
