how will can i move on?

Philippines
October 14, 2009 4:08am CST
Its been a year and 10 months now when I broke up with my boyfriend for three years and 3 months due to "third party for the third time". But until now,I still love him and I can't get him out of mind even though he won't come back for me because he is now with a new girl.I tried alot of ways to forget about him but it didn't worked. I went to and stayed for several months in a new place, changed my number, mingle with other people, jam with friends, focused myself with my priorities and family, I burn everything he gave me and had a make-over.but I failed to forget about him.so, How can I move on?
5 responses
• Philippines
13 Nov 09
the only person who can really tell you how to move on is - you. you have all the grieving rights but you should give yourself a timeframe as to when you will grieve and then move on. just be thankful that you were given a chance to love and be loved. open your heart to a new relationship and apply the things that you have learned from the past. other people do not experience the feeling of being in love or being loved but you are lucky you had your chance and fair share of the word - LOVE. and most importantly, love yourself, this is the best way to show a person that you are capable of loving, it starts with you...Goodluck!
• China
3 Nov 09
its easy , just find a new one, start a new relationship, it helps alot.
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
Probably if you`ll just divert yourself from things that would keep you busy it will work at some point. You can move on with that someday. I had my struggles like yours with my first boyfriend. Still on the process or recovering. Though its really hard but still keep going right now. you can do it! Good luck!
@feodda (579)
• Philippines
19 Oct 09
You can move on by thinking that he is worthless and don't deserve your love. And there is a man will come and much more deserving for your love. In the first place, it is the third time he done that to you. How could you trust and love a man that cheated you. This is what I have done in the past few months. After the broke up with my ex because of Third Party. I just think he is a loser. And moving on is the best way to do. Don't lock up yourself to a guy that can't be trust and making your life miserable. Look yourself in the future with him and get married. Do you think your marriage will last. Or just end up in a mess. I know it is hard to move on, I have been there. But I have survive because of my friends, family and a new environment, and a person you loved me and changed my life. Getting forward in life and seeing yourself in a right track. Don't look back to the past rather appreciate it as a lesson for your future. They always say that failed in love is a learning experience to make another relationship a better one. Before loving another one, try to be in a right track for yourself. Love yourself above all things. Because you can't love again when you are broken heart, it just end up in a mess. Move on!!! and you can Survive!
• China
24 Oct 09
Let by-gones be by-gones.Any way, we are walking towards but not backwards.I have experienced so many sorrow things. I lost my marriage, I lost my family, now, my treasure is my son. So girl, your treasure is yourself. Before you fall in love with another boy, just love yourself. Cheer up~