what's love?

@leoliu39 (540)
China
October 14, 2009 4:13am CST
I am almost forty years old. till now, I am still not sure what's love, because there are so many bad thing happen between the lovers. so I hope I can find the truth of love.
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5 responses
• Indonesia
14 Oct 09
love is a beautiful you can't touch it but you can fell it in your heart.love make this world get peace no war just peace... when you find someone you love,you'll fell different in your heart than usually in your life.so love is beautiful.but love it's not about loving girls or boys love also meaning universal like love your family,your best friend ,everyone who needs love
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@leoliu39 (540)
• China
15 Oct 09
yes, you are right. LOve means more than love between boys and girls. thank you for your sharing!
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• Egypt
14 Oct 09
hi leoliu, talk about love is a lot. and problems of love are many. but ? is the problem in love ? or in us? of course, love is innocent. I hope to find your true love
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@leoliu39 (540)
• China
15 Oct 09
thanks for your replying!
@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
14 Oct 09
leoliu39, So, what is love to you? Well, let me see. Love is not a bond, or a relationship, but more of a heart to heart conversation. When the conversation grows, the bond and relationship forms. Therefore, love creates the bond and relationship. Love means to care, to protect, to watch over, to pray for, to make sure the loved person is happy. But to tell you the truth, those are all parts of love. Not love itself. Love is actually never the same thing. Your destiny, your future path, what you choose to do, that all determines what love is. Love is never the same, you make up the meaning of love by how you choose to use it. And, the list goes on. However, let me say this fairly to you: "How you define love is as not important as how that definition works for you." Take care and have a nice day.
• Singapore
15 Oct 09
You are welcome, leoliu39. Just live life to the fullest and as passionate as you want and can. As it is short, we can never know so cherish the moments and not let what others think, bother you. Thanks for the BR awarded and have a nice day.
@leoliu39 (540)
• China
15 Oct 09
thank you for your replying!get a lot from your posting!
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@abhaijith (2963)
• India
14 Oct 09
Love is a everlasting feeling which is a gift of nature and the base of the existance of mankind. In my opinion,there is nothing to say about love but only to experience.good discussion.happy Mylotting friend.
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@leoliu39 (540)
• China
15 Oct 09
thanks a lot. we should do something before knowing it or after knowing it?
@larish (2191)
• Philippines
15 Oct 09
Love is really hard to find. And mostly people are blinded by it. I think the best way to find love is to know thyself first. I was also a failure when it comes to love. When I fell in love, I just felt that I am obligated to do whatever he wants by compromising what I like. Let say for example, we have to watch a movie, I will just tell him to chose. Even where to eat I always thought that giving him the option to choose is a way for me to show my love. But as the relationship go on, I suddenly feel that I already lost my identity because everything that I do was dependent on him. So, what I did, I broke up with him and then I find myself again. Now, I am married to my best friend of 11 years because with him, I felt that I just have to be myself and no need to pretend for he has already accepted me as a person even before we became a couple.