Have you ever done something wrong in your life, that has changed your view ?

India
October 15, 2009 7:52am CST
Have you ever done something wrong in your life, that has changed the way the world and yourrelatives see you? We all do something good and some bad, but it is their intensity that changes the pace of our life. I know, it must happened with all of you, but can you share even a lit of it with us all? I swear, I have caused my family a loss of around Rs 1.5 lakhs last year and it was just because I blindly believed everybody, locally or online. i was scammed by a loan company, a job scandal, some online scams and by one of my best friends themselves. So now, I am very scared to befriend any body
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@Craicha (801)
16 Oct 09
yah when i married a wrong guy that i know im not sure about him that i even know on our wed day im nah happy and when i try to save the married life but dnt work...til get tired and just feel free and happy when he give me freedom....!!
• India
16 Oct 09
I think one should marry a person who loves him and not a person whom he loves.
• Philippines
16 Oct 09
I have done something that i have been regretting, i was not able to finished a college degree because i was too busy with my work as a factory worker i somehow felt that i am contented as a factory worker but eventually i realized that i am not happy anymore with my job. i tender my resignation after 18 years then i decided to take up a caregiver course. then there was a chance that i could work on a call center company but my educational background does not fit because they need at least 2 years in college it was the time i realize how important to finished up with a degree..that is something that i cannot make it anymore because i am already 42 years old.
• India
16 Oct 09
I think career is more important than anything else, accept for some very adverse conditions for our family. My grandfather was a very poor man and so my Father had to do parttime job as a receptionist in a local Office. He used to study at night and work in the morning. H completed his Graduation this way. And I am too working parttime as a tutor.
@getbrowser (1715)
• China
15 Oct 09
Yes, I really regret to have been keeping away from my girlfriend. Almost everyone have done something wrong in their whole life. But for me, I did a unforgivable thing one year ago. When I was accepted by a northeast foresty university, I had to leave home for study; at the same time, I had been away from my girlfriend. Until now, it has been one year that we don't meet each other. After this, I understand that people should keep in touch with her forever if you love your girlfriend.
• India
16 Oct 09
I have also done the same mistake once, by neglecting my Boyfriend's calls and SMSs. He then breakup and now I am finding him with another girl. I am jealous now, for he was a good guy and was good at studies also. He is persuing BTech in Computer Science from BIT Mesra.
@Weizen (145)
• China
16 Oct 09
I think I have .and I more think I have too much about this ,when I 'm younger ,my soem thought is pure ,so I have pay the fee for this stupid thought .Just like my study . I have this experience .and I remeber for this , I have cried two days .in that time ,I think I must regret too much . From this failed .I learn much thing ,and frist one ,I found my thought is stupid before ,even sometime ,when I think this thought .I feel shy for this , And Second ,just you said ,my thought have change ,my view ,and my opinion .and I could understand what my parents .and I could know why they do ? and their opinion . in a word .from these wrong ,I learn much thing ,and my view is change too much ,I like this fail experience .they teach my much thing ,and help me become mature
@voldrox (7200)
• India
16 Oct 09
Oh! m sorry for you, that is now a pretty big loss! 1.5 lakhs is around 3240 US $ . . . it is so sad when the person you trust just gets away with kicking some dirt in the eyes, it is like a punishment for being nice and friendly with someone, i can understand now you will find it harder to befriend someone you don't know, it is so unfortunate how the world is now, hard to trust anyone, one of the reasons i don't like to share some info with strangers... it is better to play safe than be more friendly with people, i keep on hearing such things on the news and all, it is just not right... well i have also done some wrongs with my life as well, i have hurt a very close friend of mine, i had thought she was different and i complained to her that she should not be flirting with other guys, i thought i was being friendly with her telling that, but that broke her, she gave me some reasons and i realized she wasn't like that at all, it is okay now, we are still very good friends, it is wrong to prejudge and i have learned a heavy lesson, i don't want to repeat that with anyone, hurting close and dear ones is one the meanest things i have done by mistake...
@viewxyz (59)
• Indonesia
16 Oct 09
Hi multitasker, Everyone has their own "road of life" and everyone has their negative attitude. Sometimes life is not good as you seen and not bad as you seen either, at the end God has His own plan. If we did something wrong may be that's the way how God teach us a lesson, keep in mind that there is no coincidence in life, everything is just flow as it is. My suggestion is, stop blaming your self, your friends or others. Look for the positive side "You have gained new experience", being careful is a must but being scared it not the way. Life is hard, we must be Harder.