Any idea when you hear?"I love to cry in the rain, so that nobody see me crying"

@vjg_06 (64)
October 16, 2009 9:02pm CST
For me this simply means that the person being referred to is really hurting. He cant just tell it to anybody. He is shy to show what he really feels. He is afraid to show it to everyone thus he feels secure when it rains for it is his chance to burst out without even one noticing it. Its good to do this for once, but it wont help you it it wont bring positivity to your life... Sometimes its better to face whats really ahead of us. May it be love, care, fear, or even anger for it makes us better and happier individual.
7 responses
@shirlyne (49)
• Philippines
18 Oct 09
sometimes we tend to hide our emotions. "crying in the rain" i've done that so many times, and it feels better after. the truth that nobody see you crying is a very nice feeling... =)
@vjg_06 (64)
31 Oct 09
Does you do it all the time? Especially if your hurting? Well it might feel good but does it really help you? Im just wondering, coz I dont know of anybody who has been close to me doing like this. Thank you.
17 Oct 09
I agree with what you have said it is well put. To be crying in the rain so that noone can see you, maybe the person does not want to bother anyone with their feelings. Maybe they do not know how to express what they are feeling so they choose to do it alone. I think if you were crying in the rain you would start to feel numb from the cold so maybe that person wants to feel nothing at all but the rain. It is quite a deep and thoughtful saying, I like it.
@vjg_06 (64)
31 Oct 09
Aside form the coldness that he might feel when he is there, it might just give him the comfort that no one will notice him because its raining. And its a good way to burst out what he truly feels. May it be happiness or sadness. It might just a way of letting it all out.
@mrfdg1972 (3238)
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
It is necessary to feel sadness to experience happiness, or vice versa. not a lot of people cry when they stumble on the ground, but the important thing is you GET UP get on your feet, gather the emotions and propel yourself.
@vjg_06 (64)
31 Oct 09
Your absolutely right! Thats normal but you have to know your limitations. If its not doing any good then it will be better to stop doing it.In the end you might just end up hurting your own self even more.
@jpso138 (7863)
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
Well I think your are right. Although most people when they cry usually do not do so in public. But if a person only cries when it rains simply because he does not want to be seen, I think that is to much. Well, crying is also a therapy. It can bring us some comfort and somewhat take out some heavy feeling as well as emotions. But to much crying is also not good, most especially when you cry only when it rains to hide the tears.
@vjg_06 (64)
31 Oct 09
Its always good to know our limitations. There are times when we always think we can do it on our own but when we feel we can no longer handle it, then it will be great if we can ask someone to lend a hand.
• China
17 Oct 09
Probably the mam who would like to cry in the rain is an introverted and sentimental person.He or she likes staying in their own world.Even when he or she feels sad,he or she is willing to suffer by themselves.Those people live a overloaded life at my part.Why donot share your life with your parents and friends?why do not cry before others and tell them how you feel.
@vjg_06 (64)
31 Oct 09
It is probably true. He might just want to solve it by his own not asking the help of anyone who might be hurt as well. I think he just to trust his close friends and love ones as well and they might be able to help him with what he is carrying.
@cbeee3 (2063)
• India
17 Oct 09
What you say is true. Well said! Crying, be it noticed or unnoticed, cannot solve our problems. But one thing remains, sometimes it's good to cry and vent your anger and frustration. It's said medically that if you let out your emotional burden this way, it can act as a stress-buster. I was going through a terrible patch in my life and one day I actually did cry in the rain. I thought a lot about various things and felt much stronger coz at that point, I made a life changing decision. So being a cry baby about everything is bad. But crying sometimes, can help.
@vjg_06 (64)
17 Oct 09
your right!... as long as if wont hurt you more, crying thus make since as well. it has its pro's and con's. It just depends on the person how he will use it to his advantage. It doesnt necessarily mean we're weak when we cry. It can possibly mean we're doing an ever bigger fight for the good of everyone being involved.
@jndlponti (2408)
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
indeed, i agree with you point. BUT, when you cry in the rain... someone would actually notice you and be willing to omfort you but he/she can't becasue you choose the rain instead of a shoulder. when we get hurt, it's like we become little child again, we crawl into one corner of our room hugging our legs, form like a fetus who's looking for a mother to comfort... but is will not happen again, we're gonna go back to fetuses... instead, we're gonna grow, we're going to move on.
@vjg_06 (64)
31 Oct 09
Yah you have a point! Crying always shows that we need someone to lean unto. I might be a friend, a part of the family, a boyfriend/girlfriend or just anybody whom you might be comfortable with. But in here, there might be times as well when all you need is yourself to look on another perspective.