longterm or shorterm relationship which you prefer before decide to settle down?

long term or short tem, there's no problem with that, at long as you get along with each other so well

When I begin a relationship I have no idea whether it will be a long term relationship or a short term relationship that doesn't work out. Every person hopes to find his or her soul mate. There is no point for me to stay in a relationship if I am not compatible with the person. If you date a guy for a short time it might hurt him when you split up. Good luck.

Well, in a relationship, one thing that I have learned about it is that never settle in anything unless you don't think that it will last longer. If you intend to just end that relationship in a little while, then it should be better not to continue. That would seem like you are a bit fooling yourself in the first place. Make sure that whenever you engage and share another part of you with that person, always think that he would be your last (sometimes it does not end that way, but that's how it should be). Some people end up losing each other because what they have in mind is that it is just a short term relationship. Cheers!